About to start crying again and don't know what to do?

-Giving you some background on the situation:



Yesterday was a the last straw for me. My mom ex boyfriend came over yesterday. She made it clear to us that she was through with him that when he had choked her that was the last straw for her. So she went and got a restraining order but it had expired she never went to go renew it. We asked her why do she want to be friends with him. All she did was cried and say their just friends and that he here for a visit and why she can't have a life. This man tried to take her life and run her life. She gave him so many chances after chances. This man also smokes crack. My mom already experience in being in a abusive relationship. That relationship turned out bad. The man ended up dead. A family member came to our protection. I told her yesterday that I don't want my brother experience what I had to experience when I was younger. She swear to us that her and her ex boyfriend are not getting together and that they are just friends and he just came over to visit. But this dude had his clothes off while he was in her room. My boyfriend is a very opinionated person. He going to speaks what is on his mind and he going to state the facts. He also came to my mom defense once when her ex boyfriend was calling out of her name and talking to her like she was nothing. Her ex had a staple gun and he had took it and started to hit my boyfriend on top of his head with it.



But like I said my last straw is when he came over yesterday. My mom was defending him and saying why she can't have a life and friends. My mom has friends. Friends that treat her better than he treats her never put there hands on her and talk to her like she nothing. This morning I told myself that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I can't be here if she going to continue to be friends talk to her ex. He's a dangerous person. Even a lady he use to talk to contacted her and told her that he's 51/50 and she also had a restraining order out against him. All together this man had 4 restraining orders against including my momma before hers expired she never went back to court to make it permanent. Every time something happens between them she comes to me and my boyfriend. She'll say it over between them, but then a couple of weeks or month later she taking him back. She done call it quits with him about 4 or 5 times. I'm tired of her coming to us when she ends up taking him back. The last incident that happened when he choked her she not only she came to me and my boyfriend. Her two sisters became involved and two of my cousins.



I don't know what to do. I mean I know for a fact that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I told my lil brother and he was like why don't. I told him I had to because I can't be her and watch our mom do this to herself. I told him that I would still stay in the city that we stay in and that every weekend that he can come and stay the night.



I asked this question before about an hour ago or so. One of the answers was basically not to move out that this man may flip and decides to kill my mom and brother. Well my uncle also stay here and a auntie that also stay here. I have two aunties that stay around the corner and cousins. Everybody is aware of this man now. So he'll be stupid to try to do something.



Now to this minute my mom is acting all mad slamming doors and every thing. I know my elderly cousin went in her room and said something all I hear my mom say she don't want to hear it she not in the mood and leave her alone. When my mom slammed the front wooden door I seen she had a mad look on her face. I really do want to talk to someone. I'm thinking about going over my auntie and talk because I know my mom still mad from yesterday. I'm kinda scared to talk to my auntie. I heard her mentioned that she's not about to get into anybody relationships problems. I'm feeling like I was wrong for expressing my feeling to my mom about this man and how i feel he's a threat to her life. My boyfriend, my brother, and Uncle also expressed their feelings and I believe one of my aunties told my told her how she feels too.stop being such a pussy and leave...its not a real mother if she doesn't listen to the opinion and needs of her children.
Yes, you NEED to leave! Take your brother with you. If you mother gets hurt, so be it. She put herself in this situation. You and your brother do not have to go through this. No offense, but I hate mothers such as yours. They're weak and feel like it's not only okay to keep putting themselves in danger, but also that it's okay for their CHILD to be in this danger with them. She's either ignorant and actually thinks this man will change, self-destructive, and/or VERY irresponsible.

It's only going to go downhill from here. I'd hate it if you or your little brother gets hurt.
Go to the police and ask to be put in a foster home and they has all the records on file.they will

set up a date with family court for her to show why you can't go.till then you will be out

in a foster home or state home for neglected children It's a shame that a mother puts her needs

befor children well fare.