-Say you were planning that present for one of your friends who's birthday is coming up.... :) Hope I helped! :)tell her she's the worst sister ever because she ruined her surprise
Buy her another one and make her think that the one she saw will be the one you give to her.
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2011年8月4日星期四
How do I go about finding out about a family members life (whom I never met)?
-I've never met this person but he is still my Uncle. He committed suicide before my brother and I were born. I am wondering all sorts of things like if he had a family and if he had addiction so many other things. I want to know more about him and his life. I have asked but no one wants to talk. For me its important. If anyone can help me in guiding me in the right direction of how to find out my answers I appreciate it a lot.
How to make things with my mom better?
-She hasnt spoken to me in 3 days now and my room is right next to hers (i am 14) she is just ignoring me.and walks by me without saying a word. She looks at me like she hates me. And today is trash day and she always takes out my garbage but today she didnt. I am really hurt and I really dont know why she is mad at me only I can think of is.that on friday I didnt talk to her or anyone because I was upset about this guy and I wouldnt tell her whats wrong since I am not suppose to date.be honest with her for starters
maybe leave a note on her bed saying, "sorry, i don't know what i did but want to make it better" then confront her. she could be thinking the same thing as you and you just don't know it.
You are only 14 so i can understand why she wouldn't want to let you date (i'm 15 and am in the same boat) you could ask to have a little slack when it comes to being with guys, bargain but don't try to go to far.All you can do is talk to her, I totally understand where you are coming from and odds are your moms hurting too, and even though its hard at times even though your younger you have to be the bigger person and just sit down and ask her whats up, maybe she needs you to take the first step.
create a world and bring children into it,
creating a child to make a world is unfair (to both).
your choice; choose the former, you're living the latter.
passive-aggressive is not a solution.
She probably found out about this guy.
You broke the rule now you pay the penalty. Let her re-start the words flowing meanwhile empty your trash and prove you can follow at least one rule.
The only way to make things better is to talk to her. That way you can clarify what's wrong and go from there.
Definitely you do any fault. Caught your mom leg and say sorry, promise her next time any wrong.
maybe leave a note on her bed saying, "sorry, i don't know what i did but want to make it better" then confront her. she could be thinking the same thing as you and you just don't know it.
You are only 14 so i can understand why she wouldn't want to let you date (i'm 15 and am in the same boat) you could ask to have a little slack when it comes to being with guys, bargain but don't try to go to far.All you can do is talk to her, I totally understand where you are coming from and odds are your moms hurting too, and even though its hard at times even though your younger you have to be the bigger person and just sit down and ask her whats up, maybe she needs you to take the first step.
create a world and bring children into it,
creating a child to make a world is unfair (to both).
your choice; choose the former, you're living the latter.
passive-aggressive is not a solution.
She probably found out about this guy.
You broke the rule now you pay the penalty. Let her re-start the words flowing meanwhile empty your trash and prove you can follow at least one rule.
The only way to make things better is to talk to her. That way you can clarify what's wrong and go from there.
Definitely you do any fault. Caught your mom leg and say sorry, promise her next time any wrong.
All my family is obese except me need help (10 point reward)?
-ok so im a 13 year old girl and im 4'10 and weigh 90 pounds so i am normal weight, but everyone else in my family is obese. my dad is 5'8 and 365 pounds my mom is 5'2 and 256 pounds, my 10 year old little brother, who is bigger than me, is 4'10 and is 205 pounds, my 17 year old brother is 5'10 and is over 475 pounds (idk his exact weight cause our scale has a max weight of 475 pounds and when he goes on it, it just reads "WLE", and i read the instructions on the scale and "WLE" stands for "weight limit exceeded" so for all i know he could be 500 pounds) i also have a 2 year old baby sister. i am really worried about my family and were their health is headed. every one in my family eats alot and just sits on the couch. for dinner all my mom makes is unhealthy foods and makes alot of it. i am a very picky eater so i dont eat alot, but the rest of my family is different they can eat everything in site what i eat in a week they eat in 1 meal. especially my older brother. he has a job at mcdonalds and employees get free lunch so he eats maybe 4-5 big macs every day. and also i dont even think my little brother knows that being obese is bad like sometimes i see him playing and squeezing his belly fat one time he said "look at my belly it jiggles like jello" and started laughing. i think because he sees how the rest of our family is obese its normal that he is. i try my best to encourage some exercise but it seems like they dont take me seriously. like a couple days ago i was going to take a jog around the neighborhood and when i asked if anyone wanted to join they looked at me and laughed and said "no thanks" then i asked how about a small walk the only one who went with me is my younger brother, but only 10 minutes into the walk he was complaining about how he was tired and his how his legs were hurting and he was breathing very heavily. i love my family with all my heart but it really bothers me with what they are doing. iv tried to get other people to tell my family that they should start exercising but it hasnt worked. i'v told my older brothers long time girlfriend (who is obese her self) to convince him to lose weight but she tried and still nothing. i and fear the most that my baby sister will end up obese.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.you could try looking up new healthy reciped of the food that your family loves to eat, so that they would be eating the foods they love, just with healthier foods. also you could try thinking of creative ways to get your whole family active, such as family games such as wiffel ball or going to a park. little things to get everyone healthy will evenually start helping. just keep encouraging everyone to get active and they will eventually come around to the idea! don't give up! you can do it!Its all genetics, its like a box 3 out of 4 squares of the box will be obesity and the other will be normal weight, you got the 25% chance of being regular sized.
Look on the bright side: they will all die soon, leaving you as sole heir.
sorry about this . WEll if your family is going to be stubborn about it and not take you serious then they do have a problem.
They have to want tot change as well you cant make them change because that just doesnt work. Just tell them that you are worried and that you want whats best for them!
Have a dietitian talk to your mother and father .. look up the risks of being over weight on line and show them!!! tell them that what there doing to you and your little brother is unfair !
they need to learn how to eat . There eating junk because thats all they know . your family needs help and its sad that you a 13 should be dealing with this but your there only hope give it all you can :).
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.you could try looking up new healthy reciped of the food that your family loves to eat, so that they would be eating the foods they love, just with healthier foods. also you could try thinking of creative ways to get your whole family active, such as family games such as wiffel ball or going to a park. little things to get everyone healthy will evenually start helping. just keep encouraging everyone to get active and they will eventually come around to the idea! don't give up! you can do it!Its all genetics, its like a box 3 out of 4 squares of the box will be obesity and the other will be normal weight, you got the 25% chance of being regular sized.
Look on the bright side: they will all die soon, leaving you as sole heir.
sorry about this . WEll if your family is going to be stubborn about it and not take you serious then they do have a problem.
They have to want tot change as well you cant make them change because that just doesnt work. Just tell them that you are worried and that you want whats best for them!
Have a dietitian talk to your mother and father .. look up the risks of being over weight on line and show them!!! tell them that what there doing to you and your little brother is unfair !
they need to learn how to eat . There eating junk because thats all they know . your family needs help and its sad that you a 13 should be dealing with this but your there only hope give it all you can :).
Trapped in an incestual family?
-My family is obsessed with incest! I am ten years old and sometimes my dad likes to have a threesome with me and my mom. Usually after dinner. Sometimes my older sister will join in. Or my dog. So how do I stop this!? I have called the police, but they always end up joining in a huge gang bang with me and my family! I hate it when mummy squirts in my face! Please help! I want to know how I can tell my parents to stop.I only have sex with 3 of my cousins because they are the only hot cousins i have. but your just nasty
Right what can i do? please help?
-right well at 4 i was sextualy abused by my dad, and it went to court hes not allowed to see me at all no contact. i had councelling back then. im 13 now and suddenly all the anger a upset has started to come back at me, getting worse. to everyone else im a sweet calm girl but in side im tramatized and angry and upset. i Wont go to counceling and cant tell anyone! what can i do? help me i just want to rip his head off. littraly kill him. anger a upset has started to come back at me, getting worse. to everyone else im a sweet calm girl but in side im tramatized and angry and upset. i Wont go to counceling and cant tell anyone! what can i do? help me i just want to rip his head off. littraly kill him.Sweetie, it seems people already know. I know you probably hate him very much,
and that's normal. But if the counseling had helped you before, it will help you now.
Therapists will let you express your feelings, and the best part is, that they cannot
tell anyone. I'm sure your other family members will understand what your going
through, because me, being a stranger, I feel for you sweetheart. Good luck.
write it(what is making you angry) down on a piece and rip it up !
Seek Jesus.
Dear girl, I understand your feelings and how terrible it is to go through such thing at such a young age. In my opinion, even though it is so difficult for you to tell anyone about your feelings, you should talk to your mom or other family members if you didn't wish to go counselling and to be treated like a patient. Then, you wouldn't bear the pains alone. Sometimes, even though they might not be able to give you any actually helpful advice, their love for you and the fact that they are there for you would make you feel much better. In addition, you could try your best to forget about your dad instead of hating him extremely. I don't mean to forgive but to no longer torture yourself. Thinking about him leads you to think about that experience. That makes you become the one who truly suffers. It may be good for you to focus more on the rest of your family that cares about you and your true friends. They would protect you and give you delight, and the memory of bad things would fade away. Let happiness stays with you rather than anger. Believe me, life can be beautiful. Furthermore I suggest you to try exercising, which isn't only helpful for improving your body condition but also releasing your pain. Exercising has a dramatic effect on human brain and is able to change your life entirely. Those people with ADHD, depression, anxiety, addiction to drugs and alcohol, and even cancer were cured after long-time exercising. There are all true stories about them illustrated in an academic book called "Spark" by Doctor Ratey. If you are interested, you could spend some time reading it, which I believe is very useful. Besides studying, you can try drawing, listening to music, going out to enjoy the nature's beauty, etc. during your leisure time. They remind you that you are still an innocent girl. I don't know what makes you interested, but let it fills your heart if you had a hobby. Don't think too much about who hurt you but who loves you, what gives you sadness but what gives you joy, what forces you to stay in the past but what gives you a happy future.
I wish the painful experience would no longer affect your life and you could walk out of the shadow of the past that has been lingering in your mind. Good luck!
and that's normal. But if the counseling had helped you before, it will help you now.
Therapists will let you express your feelings, and the best part is, that they cannot
tell anyone. I'm sure your other family members will understand what your going
through, because me, being a stranger, I feel for you sweetheart. Good luck.
write it(what is making you angry) down on a piece and rip it up !
Seek Jesus.
Dear girl, I understand your feelings and how terrible it is to go through such thing at such a young age. In my opinion, even though it is so difficult for you to tell anyone about your feelings, you should talk to your mom or other family members if you didn't wish to go counselling and to be treated like a patient. Then, you wouldn't bear the pains alone. Sometimes, even though they might not be able to give you any actually helpful advice, their love for you and the fact that they are there for you would make you feel much better. In addition, you could try your best to forget about your dad instead of hating him extremely. I don't mean to forgive but to no longer torture yourself. Thinking about him leads you to think about that experience. That makes you become the one who truly suffers. It may be good for you to focus more on the rest of your family that cares about you and your true friends. They would protect you and give you delight, and the memory of bad things would fade away. Let happiness stays with you rather than anger. Believe me, life can be beautiful. Furthermore I suggest you to try exercising, which isn't only helpful for improving your body condition but also releasing your pain. Exercising has a dramatic effect on human brain and is able to change your life entirely. Those people with ADHD, depression, anxiety, addiction to drugs and alcohol, and even cancer were cured after long-time exercising. There are all true stories about them illustrated in an academic book called "Spark" by Doctor Ratey. If you are interested, you could spend some time reading it, which I believe is very useful. Besides studying, you can try drawing, listening to music, going out to enjoy the nature's beauty, etc. during your leisure time. They remind you that you are still an innocent girl. I don't know what makes you interested, but let it fills your heart if you had a hobby. Don't think too much about who hurt you but who loves you, what gives you sadness but what gives you joy, what forces you to stay in the past but what gives you a happy future.
I wish the painful experience would no longer affect your life and you could walk out of the shadow of the past that has been lingering in your mind. Good luck!
I need to encourage my family to lose weight (10 points)?
-ok so im a 13 year old girl and im 4'10 and weigh 90 pounds so i am normal weight, but everyone else in my family is obese. my dad is 5'8 and 365 pounds my mom is 5'2 and 256 pounds, my 10 year old little brother, who is bigger than me, is 4'10 and is 205 pounds, my 17 year old brother is 5'10 and is over 475 pounds (idk his exact weight cause our scale has a max weight of 475 pounds and when he goes on it, it just reads "WLE", and i read the instructions on the scale and "WLE" stands for "weight limit exceeded" so for all i know he could be 500 pounds) i also have a 2 year old baby sister. i am really worried about my family and were their health is headed. every one in my family eats alot and just sits on the couch. for dinner all my mom makes is unhealthy foods and makes alot of it. i am a very picky eater so i dont eat alot, but the rest of my family is different they can eat everything in site what i eat in a week they eat in 1 meal. especially my older brother. he has a job at mcdonalds and employees get free lunch so he eats maybe 4-5 big macs every day. and also i dont even think my little brother knows that being obese is bad like sometimes i see him playing and squeezing his belly fat one time he said "look at my belly it jiggles like jello" and started laughing. i think because he sees how the rest of our family is obese its normal that he is. i try my best to encourage some exercise but it seems like they dont take me seriously. like a couple days ago i was going to take a jog around the neighborhood and when i asked if anyone wanted to join they looked at me and laughed and said "no thanks" then i asked how about a small walk the only one who went with me is my younger brother, but only 10 minutes into the walk he was complaining about how he was tired and his how his legs were hurting and he was breathing very heavily. i love my family with all my heart but it really bothers me with what they are doing. iv tried to get other people to tell my family that they should start exercising but it hasnt worked. i'v told my older brothers long time girlfriend (who is obese her self) to convince him to lose weight but she tried and still nothing. i and fear the most that my baby sister will end up obese.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.First of all, good for you for A) caring about your family so much and B) keeping yourself healthy. If your suggestions to exercise or eat healthier aren't working, sit your family down and tell them that you care about them because of the health problems being overweight can lead to. Tell them you love them and want them to be around for a long time. Avoid using the word 'fat' and talking about appearance in any way. If they know you honestly care (which you do) about them being HEALTHY rather than losing weight just to be thin/attractive, they will listen to you. If they don't, try talking to your family doctor. Best of luck xxxHow did you manage to keep your weight down and not your brother? Well, what you can do is try to have family time outside by playing games, tug of war, tag, baseball, catch football etc. Try to talk to your family members one at a time by bringing them outside for a quick walk around house or block. Not sure of our surroundings but try to introduce fruits and vegetables as well as exercise. Start them off with a few minutes of walking first. We want to make surw your family lives a long and healthy life. Look for things to do together also have them watch Dr. Oz if you have that being broadcast in your area. I wish you best of luck and I hope in a few months your family will be healthier. Ask about how your parents grew up and what type of lifestyles they may have been introduced to, that may have an affect. Good luck.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.First of all, good for you for A) caring about your family so much and B) keeping yourself healthy. If your suggestions to exercise or eat healthier aren't working, sit your family down and tell them that you care about them because of the health problems being overweight can lead to. Tell them you love them and want them to be around for a long time. Avoid using the word 'fat' and talking about appearance in any way. If they know you honestly care (which you do) about them being HEALTHY rather than losing weight just to be thin/attractive, they will listen to you. If they don't, try talking to your family doctor. Best of luck xxxHow did you manage to keep your weight down and not your brother? Well, what you can do is try to have family time outside by playing games, tug of war, tag, baseball, catch football etc. Try to talk to your family members one at a time by bringing them outside for a quick walk around house or block. Not sure of our surroundings but try to introduce fruits and vegetables as well as exercise. Start them off with a few minutes of walking first. We want to make surw your family lives a long and healthy life. Look for things to do together also have them watch Dr. Oz if you have that being broadcast in your area. I wish you best of luck and I hope in a few months your family will be healthier. Ask about how your parents grew up and what type of lifestyles they may have been introduced to, that may have an affect. Good luck.
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