How to make things with my mom better?

-She hasnt spoken to me in 3 days now and my room is right next to hers (i am 14) she is just ignoring me.and walks by me without saying a word. She looks at me like she hates me. And today is trash day and she always takes out my garbage but today she didnt. I am really hurt and I really dont know why she is mad at me only I can think of is.that on friday I didnt talk to her or anyone because I was upset about this guy and I wouldnt tell her whats wrong since I am not suppose to date.be honest with her for starters

maybe leave a note on her bed saying, "sorry, i don't know what i did but want to make it better" then confront her. she could be thinking the same thing as you and you just don't know it.

You are only 14 so i can understand why she wouldn't want to let you date (i'm 15 and am in the same boat) you could ask to have a little slack when it comes to being with guys, bargain but don't try to go to far.All you can do is talk to her, I totally understand where you are coming from and odds are your moms hurting too, and even though its hard at times even though your younger you have to be the bigger person and just sit down and ask her whats up, maybe she needs you to take the first step.
create a world and bring children into it,

creating a child to make a world is unfair (to both).



your choice; choose the former, you're living the latter.



passive-aggressive is not a solution.
She probably found out about this guy.



You broke the rule now you pay the penalty. Let her re-start the words flowing meanwhile empty your trash and prove you can follow at least one rule.
The only way to make things better is to talk to her. That way you can clarify what's wrong and go from there.
Definitely you do any fault. Caught your mom leg and say sorry, promise her next time any wrong.