-Say you were planning that present for one of your friends who's birthday is coming up.... :) Hope I helped! :)tell her she's the worst sister ever because she ruined her surprise
Buy her another one and make her think that the one she saw will be the one you give to her.
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How do I go about finding out about a family members life (whom I never met)?
-I've never met this person but he is still my Uncle. He committed suicide before my brother and I were born. I am wondering all sorts of things like if he had a family and if he had addiction so many other things. I want to know more about him and his life. I have asked but no one wants to talk. For me its important. If anyone can help me in guiding me in the right direction of how to find out my answers I appreciate it a lot.
How to make things with my mom better?
-She hasnt spoken to me in 3 days now and my room is right next to hers (i am 14) she is just ignoring me.and walks by me without saying a word. She looks at me like she hates me. And today is trash day and she always takes out my garbage but today she didnt. I am really hurt and I really dont know why she is mad at me only I can think of is.that on friday I didnt talk to her or anyone because I was upset about this guy and I wouldnt tell her whats wrong since I am not suppose to date.be honest with her for starters
maybe leave a note on her bed saying, "sorry, i don't know what i did but want to make it better" then confront her. she could be thinking the same thing as you and you just don't know it.
You are only 14 so i can understand why she wouldn't want to let you date (i'm 15 and am in the same boat) you could ask to have a little slack when it comes to being with guys, bargain but don't try to go to far.All you can do is talk to her, I totally understand where you are coming from and odds are your moms hurting too, and even though its hard at times even though your younger you have to be the bigger person and just sit down and ask her whats up, maybe she needs you to take the first step.
create a world and bring children into it,
creating a child to make a world is unfair (to both).
your choice; choose the former, you're living the latter.
passive-aggressive is not a solution.
She probably found out about this guy.
You broke the rule now you pay the penalty. Let her re-start the words flowing meanwhile empty your trash and prove you can follow at least one rule.
The only way to make things better is to talk to her. That way you can clarify what's wrong and go from there.
Definitely you do any fault. Caught your mom leg and say sorry, promise her next time any wrong.
maybe leave a note on her bed saying, "sorry, i don't know what i did but want to make it better" then confront her. she could be thinking the same thing as you and you just don't know it.
You are only 14 so i can understand why she wouldn't want to let you date (i'm 15 and am in the same boat) you could ask to have a little slack when it comes to being with guys, bargain but don't try to go to far.All you can do is talk to her, I totally understand where you are coming from and odds are your moms hurting too, and even though its hard at times even though your younger you have to be the bigger person and just sit down and ask her whats up, maybe she needs you to take the first step.
create a world and bring children into it,
creating a child to make a world is unfair (to both).
your choice; choose the former, you're living the latter.
passive-aggressive is not a solution.
She probably found out about this guy.
You broke the rule now you pay the penalty. Let her re-start the words flowing meanwhile empty your trash and prove you can follow at least one rule.
The only way to make things better is to talk to her. That way you can clarify what's wrong and go from there.
Definitely you do any fault. Caught your mom leg and say sorry, promise her next time any wrong.
All my family is obese except me need help (10 point reward)?
-ok so im a 13 year old girl and im 4'10 and weigh 90 pounds so i am normal weight, but everyone else in my family is obese. my dad is 5'8 and 365 pounds my mom is 5'2 and 256 pounds, my 10 year old little brother, who is bigger than me, is 4'10 and is 205 pounds, my 17 year old brother is 5'10 and is over 475 pounds (idk his exact weight cause our scale has a max weight of 475 pounds and when he goes on it, it just reads "WLE", and i read the instructions on the scale and "WLE" stands for "weight limit exceeded" so for all i know he could be 500 pounds) i also have a 2 year old baby sister. i am really worried about my family and were their health is headed. every one in my family eats alot and just sits on the couch. for dinner all my mom makes is unhealthy foods and makes alot of it. i am a very picky eater so i dont eat alot, but the rest of my family is different they can eat everything in site what i eat in a week they eat in 1 meal. especially my older brother. he has a job at mcdonalds and employees get free lunch so he eats maybe 4-5 big macs every day. and also i dont even think my little brother knows that being obese is bad like sometimes i see him playing and squeezing his belly fat one time he said "look at my belly it jiggles like jello" and started laughing. i think because he sees how the rest of our family is obese its normal that he is. i try my best to encourage some exercise but it seems like they dont take me seriously. like a couple days ago i was going to take a jog around the neighborhood and when i asked if anyone wanted to join they looked at me and laughed and said "no thanks" then i asked how about a small walk the only one who went with me is my younger brother, but only 10 minutes into the walk he was complaining about how he was tired and his how his legs were hurting and he was breathing very heavily. i love my family with all my heart but it really bothers me with what they are doing. iv tried to get other people to tell my family that they should start exercising but it hasnt worked. i'v told my older brothers long time girlfriend (who is obese her self) to convince him to lose weight but she tried and still nothing. i and fear the most that my baby sister will end up obese.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.you could try looking up new healthy reciped of the food that your family loves to eat, so that they would be eating the foods they love, just with healthier foods. also you could try thinking of creative ways to get your whole family active, such as family games such as wiffel ball or going to a park. little things to get everyone healthy will evenually start helping. just keep encouraging everyone to get active and they will eventually come around to the idea! don't give up! you can do it!Its all genetics, its like a box 3 out of 4 squares of the box will be obesity and the other will be normal weight, you got the 25% chance of being regular sized.
Look on the bright side: they will all die soon, leaving you as sole heir.
sorry about this . WEll if your family is going to be stubborn about it and not take you serious then they do have a problem.
They have to want tot change as well you cant make them change because that just doesnt work. Just tell them that you are worried and that you want whats best for them!
Have a dietitian talk to your mother and father .. look up the risks of being over weight on line and show them!!! tell them that what there doing to you and your little brother is unfair !
they need to learn how to eat . There eating junk because thats all they know . your family needs help and its sad that you a 13 should be dealing with this but your there only hope give it all you can :).
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.you could try looking up new healthy reciped of the food that your family loves to eat, so that they would be eating the foods they love, just with healthier foods. also you could try thinking of creative ways to get your whole family active, such as family games such as wiffel ball or going to a park. little things to get everyone healthy will evenually start helping. just keep encouraging everyone to get active and they will eventually come around to the idea! don't give up! you can do it!Its all genetics, its like a box 3 out of 4 squares of the box will be obesity and the other will be normal weight, you got the 25% chance of being regular sized.
Look on the bright side: they will all die soon, leaving you as sole heir.
sorry about this . WEll if your family is going to be stubborn about it and not take you serious then they do have a problem.
They have to want tot change as well you cant make them change because that just doesnt work. Just tell them that you are worried and that you want whats best for them!
Have a dietitian talk to your mother and father .. look up the risks of being over weight on line and show them!!! tell them that what there doing to you and your little brother is unfair !
they need to learn how to eat . There eating junk because thats all they know . your family needs help and its sad that you a 13 should be dealing with this but your there only hope give it all you can :).
Trapped in an incestual family?
-My family is obsessed with incest! I am ten years old and sometimes my dad likes to have a threesome with me and my mom. Usually after dinner. Sometimes my older sister will join in. Or my dog. So how do I stop this!? I have called the police, but they always end up joining in a huge gang bang with me and my family! I hate it when mummy squirts in my face! Please help! I want to know how I can tell my parents to stop.I only have sex with 3 of my cousins because they are the only hot cousins i have. but your just nasty
Right what can i do? please help?
-right well at 4 i was sextualy abused by my dad, and it went to court hes not allowed to see me at all no contact. i had councelling back then. im 13 now and suddenly all the anger a upset has started to come back at me, getting worse. to everyone else im a sweet calm girl but in side im tramatized and angry and upset. i Wont go to counceling and cant tell anyone! what can i do? help me i just want to rip his head off. littraly kill him. anger a upset has started to come back at me, getting worse. to everyone else im a sweet calm girl but in side im tramatized and angry and upset. i Wont go to counceling and cant tell anyone! what can i do? help me i just want to rip his head off. littraly kill him.Sweetie, it seems people already know. I know you probably hate him very much,
and that's normal. But if the counseling had helped you before, it will help you now.
Therapists will let you express your feelings, and the best part is, that they cannot
tell anyone. I'm sure your other family members will understand what your going
through, because me, being a stranger, I feel for you sweetheart. Good luck.
write it(what is making you angry) down on a piece and rip it up !
Seek Jesus.
Dear girl, I understand your feelings and how terrible it is to go through such thing at such a young age. In my opinion, even though it is so difficult for you to tell anyone about your feelings, you should talk to your mom or other family members if you didn't wish to go counselling and to be treated like a patient. Then, you wouldn't bear the pains alone. Sometimes, even though they might not be able to give you any actually helpful advice, their love for you and the fact that they are there for you would make you feel much better. In addition, you could try your best to forget about your dad instead of hating him extremely. I don't mean to forgive but to no longer torture yourself. Thinking about him leads you to think about that experience. That makes you become the one who truly suffers. It may be good for you to focus more on the rest of your family that cares about you and your true friends. They would protect you and give you delight, and the memory of bad things would fade away. Let happiness stays with you rather than anger. Believe me, life can be beautiful. Furthermore I suggest you to try exercising, which isn't only helpful for improving your body condition but also releasing your pain. Exercising has a dramatic effect on human brain and is able to change your life entirely. Those people with ADHD, depression, anxiety, addiction to drugs and alcohol, and even cancer were cured after long-time exercising. There are all true stories about them illustrated in an academic book called "Spark" by Doctor Ratey. If you are interested, you could spend some time reading it, which I believe is very useful. Besides studying, you can try drawing, listening to music, going out to enjoy the nature's beauty, etc. during your leisure time. They remind you that you are still an innocent girl. I don't know what makes you interested, but let it fills your heart if you had a hobby. Don't think too much about who hurt you but who loves you, what gives you sadness but what gives you joy, what forces you to stay in the past but what gives you a happy future.
I wish the painful experience would no longer affect your life and you could walk out of the shadow of the past that has been lingering in your mind. Good luck!
and that's normal. But if the counseling had helped you before, it will help you now.
Therapists will let you express your feelings, and the best part is, that they cannot
tell anyone. I'm sure your other family members will understand what your going
through, because me, being a stranger, I feel for you sweetheart. Good luck.
write it(what is making you angry) down on a piece and rip it up !
Seek Jesus.
Dear girl, I understand your feelings and how terrible it is to go through such thing at such a young age. In my opinion, even though it is so difficult for you to tell anyone about your feelings, you should talk to your mom or other family members if you didn't wish to go counselling and to be treated like a patient. Then, you wouldn't bear the pains alone. Sometimes, even though they might not be able to give you any actually helpful advice, their love for you and the fact that they are there for you would make you feel much better. In addition, you could try your best to forget about your dad instead of hating him extremely. I don't mean to forgive but to no longer torture yourself. Thinking about him leads you to think about that experience. That makes you become the one who truly suffers. It may be good for you to focus more on the rest of your family that cares about you and your true friends. They would protect you and give you delight, and the memory of bad things would fade away. Let happiness stays with you rather than anger. Believe me, life can be beautiful. Furthermore I suggest you to try exercising, which isn't only helpful for improving your body condition but also releasing your pain. Exercising has a dramatic effect on human brain and is able to change your life entirely. Those people with ADHD, depression, anxiety, addiction to drugs and alcohol, and even cancer were cured after long-time exercising. There are all true stories about them illustrated in an academic book called "Spark" by Doctor Ratey. If you are interested, you could spend some time reading it, which I believe is very useful. Besides studying, you can try drawing, listening to music, going out to enjoy the nature's beauty, etc. during your leisure time. They remind you that you are still an innocent girl. I don't know what makes you interested, but let it fills your heart if you had a hobby. Don't think too much about who hurt you but who loves you, what gives you sadness but what gives you joy, what forces you to stay in the past but what gives you a happy future.
I wish the painful experience would no longer affect your life and you could walk out of the shadow of the past that has been lingering in your mind. Good luck!
I need to encourage my family to lose weight (10 points)?
-ok so im a 13 year old girl and im 4'10 and weigh 90 pounds so i am normal weight, but everyone else in my family is obese. my dad is 5'8 and 365 pounds my mom is 5'2 and 256 pounds, my 10 year old little brother, who is bigger than me, is 4'10 and is 205 pounds, my 17 year old brother is 5'10 and is over 475 pounds (idk his exact weight cause our scale has a max weight of 475 pounds and when he goes on it, it just reads "WLE", and i read the instructions on the scale and "WLE" stands for "weight limit exceeded" so for all i know he could be 500 pounds) i also have a 2 year old baby sister. i am really worried about my family and were their health is headed. every one in my family eats alot and just sits on the couch. for dinner all my mom makes is unhealthy foods and makes alot of it. i am a very picky eater so i dont eat alot, but the rest of my family is different they can eat everything in site what i eat in a week they eat in 1 meal. especially my older brother. he has a job at mcdonalds and employees get free lunch so he eats maybe 4-5 big macs every day. and also i dont even think my little brother knows that being obese is bad like sometimes i see him playing and squeezing his belly fat one time he said "look at my belly it jiggles like jello" and started laughing. i think because he sees how the rest of our family is obese its normal that he is. i try my best to encourage some exercise but it seems like they dont take me seriously. like a couple days ago i was going to take a jog around the neighborhood and when i asked if anyone wanted to join they looked at me and laughed and said "no thanks" then i asked how about a small walk the only one who went with me is my younger brother, but only 10 minutes into the walk he was complaining about how he was tired and his how his legs were hurting and he was breathing very heavily. i love my family with all my heart but it really bothers me with what they are doing. iv tried to get other people to tell my family that they should start exercising but it hasnt worked. i'v told my older brothers long time girlfriend (who is obese her self) to convince him to lose weight but she tried and still nothing. i and fear the most that my baby sister will end up obese.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.First of all, good for you for A) caring about your family so much and B) keeping yourself healthy. If your suggestions to exercise or eat healthier aren't working, sit your family down and tell them that you care about them because of the health problems being overweight can lead to. Tell them you love them and want them to be around for a long time. Avoid using the word 'fat' and talking about appearance in any way. If they know you honestly care (which you do) about them being HEALTHY rather than losing weight just to be thin/attractive, they will listen to you. If they don't, try talking to your family doctor. Best of luck xxxHow did you manage to keep your weight down and not your brother? Well, what you can do is try to have family time outside by playing games, tug of war, tag, baseball, catch football etc. Try to talk to your family members one at a time by bringing them outside for a quick walk around house or block. Not sure of our surroundings but try to introduce fruits and vegetables as well as exercise. Start them off with a few minutes of walking first. We want to make surw your family lives a long and healthy life. Look for things to do together also have them watch Dr. Oz if you have that being broadcast in your area. I wish you best of luck and I hope in a few months your family will be healthier. Ask about how your parents grew up and what type of lifestyles they may have been introduced to, that may have an affect. Good luck.
when ever i have had a problem my family has always been there to help me now they have a problem and for once i want to help them
i really dont know what to do please help.First of all, good for you for A) caring about your family so much and B) keeping yourself healthy. If your suggestions to exercise or eat healthier aren't working, sit your family down and tell them that you care about them because of the health problems being overweight can lead to. Tell them you love them and want them to be around for a long time. Avoid using the word 'fat' and talking about appearance in any way. If they know you honestly care (which you do) about them being HEALTHY rather than losing weight just to be thin/attractive, they will listen to you. If they don't, try talking to your family doctor. Best of luck xxxHow did you manage to keep your weight down and not your brother? Well, what you can do is try to have family time outside by playing games, tug of war, tag, baseball, catch football etc. Try to talk to your family members one at a time by bringing them outside for a quick walk around house or block. Not sure of our surroundings but try to introduce fruits and vegetables as well as exercise. Start them off with a few minutes of walking first. We want to make surw your family lives a long and healthy life. Look for things to do together also have them watch Dr. Oz if you have that being broadcast in your area. I wish you best of luck and I hope in a few months your family will be healthier. Ask about how your parents grew up and what type of lifestyles they may have been introduced to, that may have an affect. Good luck.
Is there any way I can move out ?
-I am 15, almost 16 years old. I can't stand living here with my dad. I can't live with my mom either cause she's in rehab. I need to move. Is there any way I can move out & go someone else before I turn 18 ?It is possible you can be emancipated at age 16 but you have to have good reason and it often can cause a lot of problems. If you are dealing with physical abuse I would per-sue it but f not it's much easier to either try to work out your differences with you dad or move in with family. I have been there though. It seems like the problems never go away. But trust me when I say years pass, seasons change and things have a way of eventually getting better.Maybe you can live with an aunt or uncle? Or what about your grandparents?
What should i give my mom for her birthday?
-i've gotta prob. her birthday's actually after a month but i know because of some 'issues' i wont be able to go out next month.. so i'm sure that cuts out products like bath salts and stuff..... i dont want it to be boring like a teddy bear or photo frame.... she's turning 39 btw.. WHAT SHOULD I GIVE HER?!? plzzz give me as many ideas as possible!! thnxxxxWhat about a gift basket. Check out these baskets at a great low prices and more! Only $9.00 to ship no matter how much you spend.
http://www.marvellousskin.com/bath_and_body_baskets/
Moms love home-made stuff, so like cook her dinner or make her a scrapbook of you and her.
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Moms love home-made stuff, so like cook her dinner or make her a scrapbook of you and her.
Is it a good idea to stay together because of a baby?
-hiya, you have got to work hard to keep a relationship going.its not easy some times.but you should never stay with some one for the child sake.but you guys say you love each other so what is the problem.im sure if you were to sit down together and find out what both of you want in the relationship,then work on it.xNo, its a very bad idea to have a relationship based on a baby. When the baby grows up and moves out then what is going to happen? When the baby is born, yeah stay in touch and let eachother have a good amount of time with the baby eachweek because you both have responsibities but NEVER stay together based on the baby, it won't work
Hope I have helped :)
That is never a good idea. If you don't want to be together for each other, it's not gonna be good for the baby. Especially when the fighting and resentment set it. You can break up and still be civil for the sake of the child.
never, it's an unhealthy relationship..would you rather your child grow up to see two separated parents living happy lives..or an unhelathy relationship and miserable parents
No, me and my husband just had a baby and we were a strong couple, it is really testing our marriage.
would you prefer your parents stay together for you, at the expense of their own happiness?
NOPE
Hope I have helped :)
That is never a good idea. If you don't want to be together for each other, it's not gonna be good for the baby. Especially when the fighting and resentment set it. You can break up and still be civil for the sake of the child.
never, it's an unhealthy relationship..would you rather your child grow up to see two separated parents living happy lives..or an unhelathy relationship and miserable parents
No, me and my husband just had a baby and we were a strong couple, it is really testing our marriage.
would you prefer your parents stay together for you, at the expense of their own happiness?
NOPE
About to start crying again and don't know what to do?
-Giving you some background on the situation:
Yesterday was a the last straw for me. My mom ex boyfriend came over yesterday. She made it clear to us that she was through with him that when he had choked her that was the last straw for her. So she went and got a restraining order but it had expired she never went to go renew it. We asked her why do she want to be friends with him. All she did was cried and say their just friends and that he here for a visit and why she can't have a life. This man tried to take her life and run her life. She gave him so many chances after chances. This man also smokes crack. My mom already experience in being in a abusive relationship. That relationship turned out bad. The man ended up dead. A family member came to our protection. I told her yesterday that I don't want my brother experience what I had to experience when I was younger. She swear to us that her and her ex boyfriend are not getting together and that they are just friends and he just came over to visit. But this dude had his clothes off while he was in her room. My boyfriend is a very opinionated person. He going to speaks what is on his mind and he going to state the facts. He also came to my mom defense once when her ex boyfriend was calling out of her name and talking to her like she was nothing. Her ex had a staple gun and he had took it and started to hit my boyfriend on top of his head with it.
But like I said my last straw is when he came over yesterday. My mom was defending him and saying why she can't have a life and friends. My mom has friends. Friends that treat her better than he treats her never put there hands on her and talk to her like she nothing. This morning I told myself that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I can't be here if she going to continue to be friends talk to her ex. He's a dangerous person. Even a lady he use to talk to contacted her and told her that he's 51/50 and she also had a restraining order out against him. All together this man had 4 restraining orders against including my momma before hers expired she never went back to court to make it permanent. Every time something happens between them she comes to me and my boyfriend. She'll say it over between them, but then a couple of weeks or month later she taking him back. She done call it quits with him about 4 or 5 times. I'm tired of her coming to us when she ends up taking him back. The last incident that happened when he choked her she not only she came to me and my boyfriend. Her two sisters became involved and two of my cousins.
I don't know what to do. I mean I know for a fact that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I told my lil brother and he was like why don't. I told him I had to because I can't be her and watch our mom do this to herself. I told him that I would still stay in the city that we stay in and that every weekend that he can come and stay the night.
I asked this question before about an hour ago or so. One of the answers was basically not to move out that this man may flip and decides to kill my mom and brother. Well my uncle also stay here and a auntie that also stay here. I have two aunties that stay around the corner and cousins. Everybody is aware of this man now. So he'll be stupid to try to do something.
Now to this minute my mom is acting all mad slamming doors and every thing. I know my elderly cousin went in her room and said something all I hear my mom say she don't want to hear it she not in the mood and leave her alone. When my mom slammed the front wooden door I seen she had a mad look on her face. I really do want to talk to someone. I'm thinking about going over my auntie and talk because I know my mom still mad from yesterday. I'm kinda scared to talk to my auntie. I heard her mentioned that she's not about to get into anybody relationships problems. I'm feeling like I was wrong for expressing my feeling to my mom about this man and how i feel he's a threat to her life. My boyfriend, my brother, and Uncle also expressed their feelings and I believe one of my aunties told my told her how she feels too.stop being such a pussy and leave...its not a real mother if she doesn't listen to the opinion and needs of her children.
Yes, you NEED to leave! Take your brother with you. If you mother gets hurt, so be it. She put herself in this situation. You and your brother do not have to go through this. No offense, but I hate mothers such as yours. They're weak and feel like it's not only okay to keep putting themselves in danger, but also that it's okay for their CHILD to be in this danger with them. She's either ignorant and actually thinks this man will change, self-destructive, and/or VERY irresponsible.
It's only going to go downhill from here. I'd hate it if you or your little brother gets hurt.
Go to the police and ask to be put in a foster home and they has all the records on file.they will
set up a date with family court for her to show why you can't go.till then you will be out
in a foster home or state home for neglected children It's a shame that a mother puts her needs
befor children well fare.
Yesterday was a the last straw for me. My mom ex boyfriend came over yesterday. She made it clear to us that she was through with him that when he had choked her that was the last straw for her. So she went and got a restraining order but it had expired she never went to go renew it. We asked her why do she want to be friends with him. All she did was cried and say their just friends and that he here for a visit and why she can't have a life. This man tried to take her life and run her life. She gave him so many chances after chances. This man also smokes crack. My mom already experience in being in a abusive relationship. That relationship turned out bad. The man ended up dead. A family member came to our protection. I told her yesterday that I don't want my brother experience what I had to experience when I was younger. She swear to us that her and her ex boyfriend are not getting together and that they are just friends and he just came over to visit. But this dude had his clothes off while he was in her room. My boyfriend is a very opinionated person. He going to speaks what is on his mind and he going to state the facts. He also came to my mom defense once when her ex boyfriend was calling out of her name and talking to her like she was nothing. Her ex had a staple gun and he had took it and started to hit my boyfriend on top of his head with it.
But like I said my last straw is when he came over yesterday. My mom was defending him and saying why she can't have a life and friends. My mom has friends. Friends that treat her better than he treats her never put there hands on her and talk to her like she nothing. This morning I told myself that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I can't be here if she going to continue to be friends talk to her ex. He's a dangerous person. Even a lady he use to talk to contacted her and told her that he's 51/50 and she also had a restraining order out against him. All together this man had 4 restraining orders against including my momma before hers expired she never went back to court to make it permanent. Every time something happens between them she comes to me and my boyfriend. She'll say it over between them, but then a couple of weeks or month later she taking him back. She done call it quits with him about 4 or 5 times. I'm tired of her coming to us when she ends up taking him back. The last incident that happened when he choked her she not only she came to me and my boyfriend. Her two sisters became involved and two of my cousins.
I don't know what to do. I mean I know for a fact that I'm going to look for a better job so I can move out. I told my lil brother and he was like why don't. I told him I had to because I can't be her and watch our mom do this to herself. I told him that I would still stay in the city that we stay in and that every weekend that he can come and stay the night.
I asked this question before about an hour ago or so. One of the answers was basically not to move out that this man may flip and decides to kill my mom and brother. Well my uncle also stay here and a auntie that also stay here. I have two aunties that stay around the corner and cousins. Everybody is aware of this man now. So he'll be stupid to try to do something.
Now to this minute my mom is acting all mad slamming doors and every thing. I know my elderly cousin went in her room and said something all I hear my mom say she don't want to hear it she not in the mood and leave her alone. When my mom slammed the front wooden door I seen she had a mad look on her face. I really do want to talk to someone. I'm thinking about going over my auntie and talk because I know my mom still mad from yesterday. I'm kinda scared to talk to my auntie. I heard her mentioned that she's not about to get into anybody relationships problems. I'm feeling like I was wrong for expressing my feeling to my mom about this man and how i feel he's a threat to her life. My boyfriend, my brother, and Uncle also expressed their feelings and I believe one of my aunties told my told her how she feels too.stop being such a pussy and leave...its not a real mother if she doesn't listen to the opinion and needs of her children.
Yes, you NEED to leave! Take your brother with you. If you mother gets hurt, so be it. She put herself in this situation. You and your brother do not have to go through this. No offense, but I hate mothers such as yours. They're weak and feel like it's not only okay to keep putting themselves in danger, but also that it's okay for their CHILD to be in this danger with them. She's either ignorant and actually thinks this man will change, self-destructive, and/or VERY irresponsible.
It's only going to go downhill from here. I'd hate it if you or your little brother gets hurt.
Go to the police and ask to be put in a foster home and they has all the records on file.they will
set up a date with family court for her to show why you can't go.till then you will be out
in a foster home or state home for neglected children It's a shame that a mother puts her needs
befor children well fare.
Do you think my brother is rushing into marriage too fast?
-My younger brother is 22 years old and he just got engaged to this girl he only knew for 4 months!!!! They met at his job where my brother is a home helper to a senior citizen she is one of the senior citizens daughter. He helps her 64 year old mother who recently had a stroke around the house and run arons for her. She's only 28 and has a daughter from her previous marriage. She seems like a nice person but she is a little too old for him I don't think my brother should be rushing into marriage this fast. We had a family dinner last week where he announced their engagement I was shocked to say the least I tried talking to him about it but he wouldn't listen. Divorce seem to run in the family my parents are divorce after 30 years and I recently got divorce so did my sister. He is the youngest and only boy out of 5 girls we are just looking out for him and his well being we love him very much he's our baby brother and don't want to see him get hurt any advice on this matter please? ThanIf you've already talked to him about it, it seems like he already has his mind made up. Just be there for him and be supportive, otherwise he may shut you out.
I fear the same thing about my brother, cuz he just turned 18. To answer your question I for sight a divorce, but who am I to tell you? I'm no psychic.
Let him be- you're his family, not his keepers. You gave your two cents, he knows you don't approve, now let him live his own life and make his own choices. Yes, he might get divorced- but maybe he's genuinely found someone special and will have a long and happy marriage. What he needs right now is people to be happy for him, and share the joy he has founds (or thinks he has found) and get off his back about living his life according to what other people is best for him. I know you mean well, but good intentions have never given free vouchers to pass judgement.
I fear the same thing about my brother, cuz he just turned 18. To answer your question I for sight a divorce, but who am I to tell you? I'm no psychic.
Let him be- you're his family, not his keepers. You gave your two cents, he knows you don't approve, now let him live his own life and make his own choices. Yes, he might get divorced- but maybe he's genuinely found someone special and will have a long and happy marriage. What he needs right now is people to be happy for him, and share the joy he has founds (or thinks he has found) and get off his back about living his life according to what other people is best for him. I know you mean well, but good intentions have never given free vouchers to pass judgement.
I sit on my dads lap and i am 18.?
-I like to sit on my dads lap and i am 18 girl. When ever i sit on his lap i can feel his pen*is getting harder. When he gets a full erec*tion i move a little to get his pen*is in between my a*ss cheeks. I think this is very hot and sexy. It is also very comfortable i my dad probably like it because he doesn't move that much when ever he has an erect*ion. One time i sat on his lap and i had on a short shorts ( i even rolled them up so they really only covered my a*ss) and of course a shirt on. When i went on his lap my skirt feel forwards a little so half my a*ss was hanging out. I had on a g-string so he could see that when it feel forwards. He had on shorts and a top. That time he got an erect*ion twice as fast it felt like.It also felt more detail to i could even tell about the size of his pen*is. It has never gone farther then that. Does anyone else have this happen to them.
I think my dad is gay. But I don't know if I should confront him about it.?
-I'm 19 and my parents have been divorced for 11 years because my dad cheated on my mom with another woman. My dad has a son with that woman and he's now 6.
I "found out" that my dad is gay because my brother's mom called me crying because she saw him with one of his friends in a compromising situation. She also told me that when she confronted him, he looked really scared and started shouting things at her. A week later my dad packed his things and left.
When she told me that, I asked my mom if she thought it was possible that my dad might be gay, and she told me that it could be possible because when they were together he asked my mom "to do weird things in bed" (I know, TMI).
The problem is that my dad is very irresponsible and is always traveling, he rarely checks on my brother and I think he's living a double life and I think that's because my family is very homophobic.
It hurts me that he has to hide from all of us, just because some members of my family are ignorant and hateful.
I want to tell him what I know, but I don't know how, and I don't know if I should even tell him. I just want him to know that I love him no matter what and that I don't care who he chooses to love as long as he's happy. But I'm also really mad at him because what he's doing (traveling too much and stuff) it's affecting my brother who thinks my dad doesn't care about him.
What should I do?You all need to talk about it. There's no knowing whether or not it's true. Encourage him to have an honest relationship, because--gay or not-- he needs to be more involved, not more distant (which hints that, yes, he's hiding something).
I "found out" that my dad is gay because my brother's mom called me crying because she saw him with one of his friends in a compromising situation. She also told me that when she confronted him, he looked really scared and started shouting things at her. A week later my dad packed his things and left.
When she told me that, I asked my mom if she thought it was possible that my dad might be gay, and she told me that it could be possible because when they were together he asked my mom "to do weird things in bed" (I know, TMI).
The problem is that my dad is very irresponsible and is always traveling, he rarely checks on my brother and I think he's living a double life and I think that's because my family is very homophobic.
It hurts me that he has to hide from all of us, just because some members of my family are ignorant and hateful.
I want to tell him what I know, but I don't know how, and I don't know if I should even tell him. I just want him to know that I love him no matter what and that I don't care who he chooses to love as long as he's happy. But I'm also really mad at him because what he's doing (traveling too much and stuff) it's affecting my brother who thinks my dad doesn't care about him.
What should I do?You all need to talk about it. There's no knowing whether or not it's true. Encourage him to have an honest relationship, because--gay or not-- he needs to be more involved, not more distant (which hints that, yes, he's hiding something).
What can I do about my family they do not listen?
-there always giving me things I do not need or want or already have plenty of and refusing to take no for an answer. I am a person who hates having excess clutter. I am what you would call a minimalist and I like to limit my stuff to a certain amount. I am about to throw their stuff in the trash if this continues and cut them out of my life, it would serve them right for not listening to me.
I think my dad is gay. But I don't know if I should confront him about it.?
-I'm 19 and my parents have been divorced for 11 years because my dad cheated on my mom with another woman. My dad has a son with that woman and he's now 6.
I "found out" that my dad is gay because my brother's mom called me crying because she saw him with one of his friends in a compromising situation. She also told me that when she confronted him, he looked really scared and started shouting things at her. A week later my dad packed his things and left.
When she told me that, I asked my mom if she thought it was possible that my dad might be gay, and she told me that it could be possible because when they were together he asked my mom "to do weird things in bed" (I know, TMI).
The problem is that my dad is very irresponsible and is always traveling, he rarely checks on my brother and I think he's living a double life and I think that's because my family is very homophobic.
It hurts me that he has to hide from all of us, just because some members of my family are ignorant and hateful.
I want to tell him what I know, but I don't know how, and I don't know if I should even tell him. I just want him to know that I love him no matter what and that I don't care who he chooses to love as long as he's happy. But I'm also really mad at him because what he's doing (traveling too much and stuff) it's affecting my brother who thinks my dad doesn't care about him.
What should I do?You all need to talk about it. There's no knowing whether or not it's true. Encourage him to have an honest relationship, because--gay or not-- he needs to be more involved, not more distant (which hints that, yes, he's hiding something).
I "found out" that my dad is gay because my brother's mom called me crying because she saw him with one of his friends in a compromising situation. She also told me that when she confronted him, he looked really scared and started shouting things at her. A week later my dad packed his things and left.
When she told me that, I asked my mom if she thought it was possible that my dad might be gay, and she told me that it could be possible because when they were together he asked my mom "to do weird things in bed" (I know, TMI).
The problem is that my dad is very irresponsible and is always traveling, he rarely checks on my brother and I think he's living a double life and I think that's because my family is very homophobic.
It hurts me that he has to hide from all of us, just because some members of my family are ignorant and hateful.
I want to tell him what I know, but I don't know how, and I don't know if I should even tell him. I just want him to know that I love him no matter what and that I don't care who he chooses to love as long as he's happy. But I'm also really mad at him because what he's doing (traveling too much and stuff) it's affecting my brother who thinks my dad doesn't care about him.
What should I do?You all need to talk about it. There's no knowing whether or not it's true. Encourage him to have an honest relationship, because--gay or not-- he needs to be more involved, not more distant (which hints that, yes, he's hiding something).
Ron Paul 2012 Homage video i made...check it out... what do you think?
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28 no job live with parents?
-This guy I know is 28 has no job and still lives with his parents he isn't even looking for a job what are you're thoughts on that please answer. They moved far away now his friends are far from him and he is lonely.Well, it's becoming more common, people losing jobs, poor health, finiancial hardship,what ever the reason, but,more young adults are relying on their parents, but, living with the parents,and not working isn't the problem, the problem would be if not actively persuing a job, or not enrolled in a educational skill developmental program, to get a career, even if a security guard. McDonalds always hiring, doesn't matter how old you are. Need a job, to get a better job, having a job, gives you a reference, alot of places won't even hire, if out of work to long,and show poor work history. My feelings are so what if he's lonely and friends mved away, he could move to if he had a job. Hopefully he's not being supported by tax payers because of laziness. One thing to go out and search for jobs every day,fill out applications all sday long. That's the job,when ya have no job,look for work every day, and you make new friends from co-workers. I'm sure it's depressing,but,will feel better with a job.
Sounds like he needs to grow up.
Sounds like he needs to grow up.
Help??I'm scared of what he will do?
-Ok so my parents went to someones house and it was just me and my big brother at home for 5 hours. So I was just chilling in my room then I went to go see what he was upto so I knocked on his door there was no answer so I just opened and I saw my brother and his gf having sex. Then he just like we will talk about this later. So now Im scared he of what he will do my parents will be home in like 2 hours. So basically my question is what do you think he will do to get me not to tell?and if I should tell?
Plz help this is not troll helpi agree with uhoh45. make him right a note to you saying if he catches you doing something bad he won't tell.
then you'll both be even and trust me, this is way better then telling your parents, he might get in trouble now, but he'll remember that moment and tell when you do something bad.I don't get why you feel guilty about your brother having sex. He's 16, he's gonna have sex. I don't even know why you think it's bad or dirty. It's not. You'll probably be having sex in a couple of years, too. Just let it go.
Um idk...probably nothing..
haaa no you shouldn't tell you little perv! just consider this he owes you one down the road
um i'm pretty sure hes not gonna do anything. hes just scared you'll tell on him which i think you shouldn't do
If he's 16 he's old enough to do that. Calm down. You want a lollipop to make you feel all better?
Tell your brother you don't want to hide things from your parents and if asked you will have to tell. Then if they ask do what you feel best,
Plz help this is not troll helpi agree with uhoh45. make him right a note to you saying if he catches you doing something bad he won't tell.
then you'll both be even and trust me, this is way better then telling your parents, he might get in trouble now, but he'll remember that moment and tell when you do something bad.I don't get why you feel guilty about your brother having sex. He's 16, he's gonna have sex. I don't even know why you think it's bad or dirty. It's not. You'll probably be having sex in a couple of years, too. Just let it go.
Um idk...probably nothing..
haaa no you shouldn't tell you little perv! just consider this he owes you one down the road
um i'm pretty sure hes not gonna do anything. hes just scared you'll tell on him which i think you shouldn't do
If he's 16 he's old enough to do that. Calm down. You want a lollipop to make you feel all better?
Tell your brother you don't want to hide things from your parents and if asked you will have to tell. Then if they ask do what you feel best,
Should I tell my parents I was molested?
-I'm 16 now and this happened when I was 5, so about 10 years ago, at that time i didnt know about sex or anything, and the guy had told me not to tell anybody and it made me feel like it was all my fault, i thought if people found out i'd go to jail, but as i grew older i found out i had been molested..
When people say they've been molested, it's usually just touching and that sort of things, but the only reason I was "molested" and not "raped" is because he didnt put 'it' in, obviously i was too young, but my clothes were off and its embarrassing to talk about it so this is why i usually never bring it up,
but it was more of oral sex,
that was the most dramatic thing in my life and it has affected me ever since, I use to cry myself to sleep for years, and the whole scene is still clearly in my mind..
I feel like its pointless to bring it up now, its not like they can take him to jail, so i just avoid the whole conversation and i hate crying in front of people so idk..but i think its time they knew but im not sure..I think you should definitely tell your parents. You can talk to them or write them a letter. Make sure you tell them.
I don't know the law in your country but in mine there are cases all over the news about grownups that have taken to court their abusers more than 10 or 15 years after the abuse took place. They always have good outcomes specially if you were under aged when it happened.
I am sure your parents can help you and support you. You can always trust them.
Good luck
That's your choice, but they might be able to go after him, he might not get into much trouble but he will then be a registered sex offender, you might save the innocence of other young kids. Usually when someone does it once, they will do it again.
Tell your parents! My closest friend had this happen to her around the age when you got molested. To this day it still kills her because the person is a close family friend. You did not deserve what happened to you! They'll be proud that you said something eventhough it took you years, but it will give you closure. I hope this helped.
hi, yes, yes you should defonatly tell your parents. do not worry about any thing bad happening becuase the will not be angry with you. what happend was not your fault.. never blame yourself for someting you had no control over. you are not alone, no matter wher you are ther is always someone to talk to.
all the best,
ellie.
I can see ur scared to tell ur parents , the whole akward talking about it crying if I were u I would pull this up and tell your parents this was u who wrote it n then tell them to read it . I think u should tell them n its never to late to tell or get him in trouble .
good luck n I hope u tell them it will make u feel so much better n it will help u
Absolutely! Tell your parents. This is very serious and no one should have to go through it. I also suggest going through some therapy to help because sometimes people become very mentally scarred. Good luck honey!
tell your parents it will make you feel better and if you know the person who did it to you then you can confront him about it
You need to speak out because you need to prevent this deviant from molesting more children. If you can't speak just write it down on paper.
Post his picture and address on youtube and we'll all pay him a visit.
it might be best to tell your parents or someone you can trust. getting it off your chest will help alot. if you start crying they will comfot you so dont worry! its time to let let them know
Personally, I would just go confront the molester.
With a baseball bat.
dunno...
this question is too hard, i'm going to pick an easier one
EDIT:
changed my mind. Tell your parents. that way, another child might not be molested by him.
tell your parents exactly what you wrote in the first paragraph.
personally, I would keep it a secret. This happens more often than you would think, and the sad fact of the matter is, even if anyone cared, most people wouldn't believe you, especially your parents.
Parents like to think they are always watching over their young ones, but the truth is, after about age 3 many parents get fed up with being parents, even regretting it...so their sharp eye starts to wane.
if you really believed it happened, I'm sorry, but some things should just be kept in the dark...It would cause more problems than it would solve, trust me.
Even after you tell them it probably won't make you feel any better...I know it didn't make me feel any better and just weird-ed my whole family out (they didn't believe me)
take care
You should tell your parents... No matter how long ago it happened, it did happen.... I read an answer which is good, i think you should tell your parents everything you mentioned in the 1st paragraph... this is serious and tell them it was a family friend and who, this way it would be easier for the police to track him down i think... You should sit and talk to your parents about this..
If you talk to your parents and cry, that's ok, after all its not over some silly little thing..
Good Luck!
I would tell your parents. If your more comfortable talking to your mom then tell her. No one should have to go through that and that jerk belongs in jail. You could try writing a note to your parents, or telling them over the phone. You should also go to a counseler to get help in trying to get over this. I really hope you tell them because you deserve to have closure knowing that that guy isnt out there, getting away with something like that. Goodluck and be strong!
I'm really sorry. It does sound like you should tell them, having other people aware of your situation creates sympathy. They will understand and help you through what you went through. They might also get worried and keep an extremely close eye on you which you might find annoying. If anything keep a bottle of pepper spray. If you really need to talk to someone but don't want your parents to know you can visit the school counsellor, a pshycologist, or just a normal counselor which are all ways to begin erasing the scars. I'm very sorry once again.
When people say they've been molested, it's usually just touching and that sort of things, but the only reason I was "molested" and not "raped" is because he didnt put 'it' in, obviously i was too young, but my clothes were off and its embarrassing to talk about it so this is why i usually never bring it up,
but it was more of oral sex,
that was the most dramatic thing in my life and it has affected me ever since, I use to cry myself to sleep for years, and the whole scene is still clearly in my mind..
I feel like its pointless to bring it up now, its not like they can take him to jail, so i just avoid the whole conversation and i hate crying in front of people so idk..but i think its time they knew but im not sure..I think you should definitely tell your parents. You can talk to them or write them a letter. Make sure you tell them.
I don't know the law in your country but in mine there are cases all over the news about grownups that have taken to court their abusers more than 10 or 15 years after the abuse took place. They always have good outcomes specially if you were under aged when it happened.
I am sure your parents can help you and support you. You can always trust them.
Good luck
That's your choice, but they might be able to go after him, he might not get into much trouble but he will then be a registered sex offender, you might save the innocence of other young kids. Usually when someone does it once, they will do it again.
Tell your parents! My closest friend had this happen to her around the age when you got molested. To this day it still kills her because the person is a close family friend. You did not deserve what happened to you! They'll be proud that you said something eventhough it took you years, but it will give you closure. I hope this helped.
hi, yes, yes you should defonatly tell your parents. do not worry about any thing bad happening becuase the will not be angry with you. what happend was not your fault.. never blame yourself for someting you had no control over. you are not alone, no matter wher you are ther is always someone to talk to.
all the best,
ellie.
I can see ur scared to tell ur parents , the whole akward talking about it crying if I were u I would pull this up and tell your parents this was u who wrote it n then tell them to read it . I think u should tell them n its never to late to tell or get him in trouble .
good luck n I hope u tell them it will make u feel so much better n it will help u
Absolutely! Tell your parents. This is very serious and no one should have to go through it. I also suggest going through some therapy to help because sometimes people become very mentally scarred. Good luck honey!
tell your parents it will make you feel better and if you know the person who did it to you then you can confront him about it
You need to speak out because you need to prevent this deviant from molesting more children. If you can't speak just write it down on paper.
Post his picture and address on youtube and we'll all pay him a visit.
it might be best to tell your parents or someone you can trust. getting it off your chest will help alot. if you start crying they will comfot you so dont worry! its time to let let them know
Personally, I would just go confront the molester.
With a baseball bat.
dunno...
this question is too hard, i'm going to pick an easier one
EDIT:
changed my mind. Tell your parents. that way, another child might not be molested by him.
tell your parents exactly what you wrote in the first paragraph.
personally, I would keep it a secret. This happens more often than you would think, and the sad fact of the matter is, even if anyone cared, most people wouldn't believe you, especially your parents.
Parents like to think they are always watching over their young ones, but the truth is, after about age 3 many parents get fed up with being parents, even regretting it...so their sharp eye starts to wane.
if you really believed it happened, I'm sorry, but some things should just be kept in the dark...It would cause more problems than it would solve, trust me.
Even after you tell them it probably won't make you feel any better...I know it didn't make me feel any better and just weird-ed my whole family out (they didn't believe me)
take care
You should tell your parents... No matter how long ago it happened, it did happen.... I read an answer which is good, i think you should tell your parents everything you mentioned in the 1st paragraph... this is serious and tell them it was a family friend and who, this way it would be easier for the police to track him down i think... You should sit and talk to your parents about this..
If you talk to your parents and cry, that's ok, after all its not over some silly little thing..
Good Luck!
I would tell your parents. If your more comfortable talking to your mom then tell her. No one should have to go through that and that jerk belongs in jail. You could try writing a note to your parents, or telling them over the phone. You should also go to a counseler to get help in trying to get over this. I really hope you tell them because you deserve to have closure knowing that that guy isnt out there, getting away with something like that. Goodluck and be strong!
I'm really sorry. It does sound like you should tell them, having other people aware of your situation creates sympathy. They will understand and help you through what you went through. They might also get worried and keep an extremely close eye on you which you might find annoying. If anything keep a bottle of pepper spray. If you really need to talk to someone but don't want your parents to know you can visit the school counsellor, a pshycologist, or just a normal counselor which are all ways to begin erasing the scars. I'm very sorry once again.
I don't know my father's side of the family.?
-I know my mother's side of the family because she takes me down to where she is from to see her relatives. My dad works, but that's not the point. If my mother can drive me through states just to see her family, why can't my dad take me to see his family when he's off of work? He's not really there for my life. All he likes to do is whenever he's at his house is sit down and do nothing at all. When I was little, he asked me to come to his house alot of times and I didn't want to go alot of times because all he does is sit around his house and do nothing. He doesn't take me to see his relatives at all. I almost have no respect for him to the point where I don't even love him. I know my mother loves me because she takes me down there to see her relatives. I feel like a part of me is missing because of my father.
My mother tells me to love my father because he is my father, but I almost have no respect for him.I never really knew my fathers side of the family as well. I was never close to my father, in fact I hated him. He was never there for me, never cared, and when my parents got divorced, I was never so happy.
maybe your father has no family, or maybe they do not want to know you
now that you are older why don't you ask him about his family
Trust me sometimes its good not to know who your family members are.
maybe they arent very close to him, or they were mean to him when he was younger so he is just ignoring them now
Wow, we're like the same but opposites at the same time.
My parents are still married but my father is barely in my life. He's there but then he isn't. All he does is work and stay at home all day. He never came to any of my school programs, he never came to my first play, he never took me to the park, he never been to my high school graduation, and he hasn't done much of anything for me accept put clothes on my back, gave me home, education, and food in my tummy. But I guess that doesn't make him much of a father if all he wants to do is sit around the house instead of paying attention to his daughter right?
My mom is my world, she is my role model, and she is everything to me. She does everything in her power to make sure I am happy and I appreciate it some much.
But the funny thing is I love my daddy a whole lot. He's my daddy and I'm daddy's little girl. And that what makes us different.
You know what else is funny? I'm not really their daughter. I'm their granddaughter. But I call them mommy and daddy because they're the only parents I've ever had. My daddy may not have been the best dad but if your willing to call him dad or it's instinct to call him dad then you have some respect and love for him even if it's the size of a microscopic organism.
I was disowned by my parents' relatives so I don't know them and my parents don't try to make me know them. But the point I'm getting at is that your father doesn't have to introduce you to his relatives to show he loves you and yeah he's lazy and could try harder to show affection to you but he asked you when you were younger to come over plenty of times so that has to count for something. He WANTS you in his life and he loves you and you might not have a lot of respect for him because he doesn't show it but that doesn't change the way he feels about you.
He most likely has family issue, some you may not know about, and would prefer to keep it that way. You should try to put some consideration into your father's feelings and behavior. If he didn't really love you and he wouldn't have asked you so many times to come over.
Maybe if you spend more time with him, even if it's just sitting around the house you would grow more respect and love for him. You two could watch tv, play cards or a board game, 20 questions, tell stories, or just talk. You want that missing part to be filled, you should take up those later offers to come visit.
Only the selfish would want their parents to go out of their way to show their love; that's a privilege. The simple things should be enough. I would be thrilled if my father asked me to watch tv with him; something he never did.
My mother tells me to love my father because he is my father, but I almost have no respect for him.I never really knew my fathers side of the family as well. I was never close to my father, in fact I hated him. He was never there for me, never cared, and when my parents got divorced, I was never so happy.
maybe your father has no family, or maybe they do not want to know you
now that you are older why don't you ask him about his family
Trust me sometimes its good not to know who your family members are.
maybe they arent very close to him, or they were mean to him when he was younger so he is just ignoring them now
Wow, we're like the same but opposites at the same time.
My parents are still married but my father is barely in my life. He's there but then he isn't. All he does is work and stay at home all day. He never came to any of my school programs, he never came to my first play, he never took me to the park, he never been to my high school graduation, and he hasn't done much of anything for me accept put clothes on my back, gave me home, education, and food in my tummy. But I guess that doesn't make him much of a father if all he wants to do is sit around the house instead of paying attention to his daughter right?
My mom is my world, she is my role model, and she is everything to me. She does everything in her power to make sure I am happy and I appreciate it some much.
But the funny thing is I love my daddy a whole lot. He's my daddy and I'm daddy's little girl. And that what makes us different.
You know what else is funny? I'm not really their daughter. I'm their granddaughter. But I call them mommy and daddy because they're the only parents I've ever had. My daddy may not have been the best dad but if your willing to call him dad or it's instinct to call him dad then you have some respect and love for him even if it's the size of a microscopic organism.
I was disowned by my parents' relatives so I don't know them and my parents don't try to make me know them. But the point I'm getting at is that your father doesn't have to introduce you to his relatives to show he loves you and yeah he's lazy and could try harder to show affection to you but he asked you when you were younger to come over plenty of times so that has to count for something. He WANTS you in his life and he loves you and you might not have a lot of respect for him because he doesn't show it but that doesn't change the way he feels about you.
He most likely has family issue, some you may not know about, and would prefer to keep it that way. You should try to put some consideration into your father's feelings and behavior. If he didn't really love you and he wouldn't have asked you so many times to come over.
Maybe if you spend more time with him, even if it's just sitting around the house you would grow more respect and love for him. You two could watch tv, play cards or a board game, 20 questions, tell stories, or just talk. You want that missing part to be filled, you should take up those later offers to come visit.
Only the selfish would want their parents to go out of their way to show their love; that's a privilege. The simple things should be enough. I would be thrilled if my father asked me to watch tv with him; something he never did.
How can I rebel against my parents?
-I am not one of those stupid spoiled brats, who want attention from their parents, so they rebel. I am just so sick of how conservative they are. I wanted a pierced ear for about 8 years before I finally got one, and my mom was so mad at me for it, she wouldn't even talk to me for a few days, and finally made me take it out. They won't let me get another pierced ear (to redo the one they made me take out) they make me go to church (which I don't believe in) they won't let me go to parties, won't let me play electric guitar (they want me being a Nice Christian boy. I am a Christian but I don't believe in all the crap the pastors try to make you). After I took out my piercing, I was so pissed I got some Indian ink, and gave myself a little tattoo. They were mad, but they couldn't do anything about it. Now the tattoo looks like sh!t, and they won't let me get a cover up (i pay for it). They are so stupidly strict, and if I don't go to church, or break a rule, they are mad at me for a month, and won't let me do ANYTHING. I skipped once, and they didn't even take me to a music lesson. They won't compromise, and I am sick of it. How can I rebel, and show them I am my own person?Go goth, and hold a tribal ceremony with some friends in your room, bonus points if you sacrifice somthing to the moon spirits!Your best revenge is to act so perfect until the day you get out of college and then disappear into the wilderness of Canada and Alaska for a year. They'll be so worried and you'll have such a great time all of your need for rebelling will be satisfied.
Remember what JB said: You can not destroy the METAL, the metal will live on!!!!
You are as you are, follow the rules, find the loop holes and technicalities, and listen to some Tenacious D, Black Sabbath, Judas Priest, Sum 41 and some Motorhead on your stereo...
Remember what JB said: You can not destroy the METAL, the metal will live on!!!!
You are as you are, follow the rules, find the loop holes and technicalities, and listen to some Tenacious D, Black Sabbath, Judas Priest, Sum 41 and some Motorhead on your stereo...
I'm never good enough for my parents?
-I feel like I'm never good enough for my parents. Both of them are college educated and my dad is doctor. I don't drink, I don't smoke I have been on high honor roll every year since 6th grade. I have been in accelerated math since 6th grade. I'm taking to AP courses next year along with enriched trig and enriched Spanish. I have been dancing since I was 2 and also do varsity cheer. But my parents are never happy. My average this year was a 96 and my dad told me if I want to do anything with my life I need to actually learn how to try hard enough. They get annoyed if I get a 90 on test and tell me I need to study for once even though I do study. My mom is always yelling at me for the tone I use when I talk to her but that's how I talk to everyone. I'm just sick of it. I try really hard to be good and do what they want me to but it's never enough. They have never said "as ling as you try your best". I brought this to my mom once and told her I'm not perfect and she said she doesn't expect me to be but it certainly seems like they want me to be. They also compare me to my cousin who is really smart. For example my dad once said Chelseas average is a 100 why is yours only a 96? And it hurts. I honestly just want to stop trying. I'm so sick of t. If my best isn't enough what's the point? Is there anything I could possibly say to them to have them realize how hard I really try and what not? I don't know what more i could possibly do to stop. Any advice is appreciatedAs long as you don't get drunk, smoke drugs, steal and get good grades then to be honest your parents should be 119 percent proud of you. If they arnt then that's their problem because you are a good person. No one is perfect, so your parents shouldn't expect you to be. They want the best for you but they seem to be taking it too far. If I was you I would talk to them and make them listen.
YOU are who YOU are. YOU are not perfect. NO ONE is, not even your parents. Everyone makes mistakes.
Hope I have helped,
Good luck!!!!!! :) xxxSry to say this but u got horrible parents. The question isn't that if u are good enough for them.. The question is are they good enough for you. Listen, the Parents raze their children as what they want. And if ur not what they won't then it's not your fault.. Can't rly understand how they made u think about this
The military's best Officer Candidates are just what you are, your parent think this because even though you do well you may not have a goal, figure one out make it your drive, then they'll become more supporting but probably the same on the nagging level...
Your parents are assholes, be what you want to be, don't let them stop you.
I wished I had Your brain
I felt that way to, I tried and tried and tried. And my step dad always said Well you need to do better, What you can do is tell them how hard your trying, and that how good you have been doing. Trust me my sister and me have the exact same thing, My step dad was so proud of my sister but me? Nope Not at all..It suckes, Just remember don't try hard for your parents try hard for you. You are doing very good in school and don't stop cause of your parents this is your future not your parents
YOU are who YOU are. YOU are not perfect. NO ONE is, not even your parents. Everyone makes mistakes.
Hope I have helped,
Good luck!!!!!! :) xxxSry to say this but u got horrible parents. The question isn't that if u are good enough for them.. The question is are they good enough for you. Listen, the Parents raze their children as what they want. And if ur not what they won't then it's not your fault.. Can't rly understand how they made u think about this
The military's best Officer Candidates are just what you are, your parent think this because even though you do well you may not have a goal, figure one out make it your drive, then they'll become more supporting but probably the same on the nagging level...
Your parents are assholes, be what you want to be, don't let them stop you.
I wished I had Your brain
I felt that way to, I tried and tried and tried. And my step dad always said Well you need to do better, What you can do is tell them how hard your trying, and that how good you have been doing. Trust me my sister and me have the exact same thing, My step dad was so proud of my sister but me? Nope Not at all..It suckes, Just remember don't try hard for your parents try hard for you. You are doing very good in school and don't stop cause of your parents this is your future not your parents
I have a family problem. Please, somebody, what would you do?
-My dad seems to have a serious anger problem. The littlest things anger him into yelling and cussing fits or even become dangerous. And dare i try and tell him how something is (because he is wrong about something) or if i have a different opinion he seems to not be able to control himself and starts screaming and insulting me, making me feel worthless. I feel like i dont have a voice and I have no other family to go to. My mom is out of the picture and my stepmom doesnt seem to care. im feeling so depressed. Somebody please help, tell me what you would do!how old are you? you need to go to a counselor. are you going to be legal yet? You should start working as soon as you can so you can make money and move out ASAP. that is not okay.
childline they will talk with you
well here is an idea try to talk with your father try to talk with your dad and if that dznt work you can try to do your best and prove to your dad that you have been born a chanpion all along a gr8 person witha respected opinion you can try to go stay with a frnd for a while until things calm down then try to enrol your dad on an anger management course and if that dznt work try to tell him that doing whatever he is doing to you will turn you to a weirdo who has nno opinion or voice and will make your life miserable and if he wishes that 4 u if he wishes you living a dead alive life then you really need to talk to someone who is close to your dad or even try contacting your mom if she is still alive or try a frnd's advice
childline they will talk with you
well here is an idea try to talk with your father try to talk with your dad and if that dznt work you can try to do your best and prove to your dad that you have been born a chanpion all along a gr8 person witha respected opinion you can try to go stay with a frnd for a while until things calm down then try to enrol your dad on an anger management course and if that dznt work try to tell him that doing whatever he is doing to you will turn you to a weirdo who has nno opinion or voice and will make your life miserable and if he wishes that 4 u if he wishes you living a dead alive life then you really need to talk to someone who is close to your dad or even try contacting your mom if she is still alive or try a frnd's advice
Why won't my mom let me use tampons?
-She says I am too young & they hurt ? or something! I love my mom but sometimes I don't get her. I am 13 - many people tell me I am not to young. what do u think????? :) to young or... ? and how do i convince her13 is a normal age for girls to start menstruating, many of them use tampons because pads leave you feeling like you're wearing a soggy diaper all day.
Just explain to her why you want to use them, and maybe even get the school nurse to give you some so you might be able to tell her you've already tried them and you don't see the problem.
It's normal to use tampons when you start if you're comfortable with them, they don't have an age requirement and they don't take your virginity if that's what she thinks.
PS they DONT hurt as long as you insert them properly, and every box comes with instructions just in case.
Good Luck.I didnt use tampons until last month. I turned 15 in March. I only use them because I'm in marching band and pads are visible uncomfortable when marching. If you aren't swimming or if you don't actually need a tampon instead of a pad then you don't need to wear 1.
Tampons can cause Toxic Shock Syndrome. It can be fatal. Listen to your mom!!! She knows what she's talking about when she tells you no!
Buy them and use them. She is not in the bathroom with you. You are a big girl, do not ask her.
Just explain to her why you want to use them, and maybe even get the school nurse to give you some so you might be able to tell her you've already tried them and you don't see the problem.
It's normal to use tampons when you start if you're comfortable with them, they don't have an age requirement and they don't take your virginity if that's what she thinks.
PS they DONT hurt as long as you insert them properly, and every box comes with instructions just in case.
Good Luck.I didnt use tampons until last month. I turned 15 in March. I only use them because I'm in marching band and pads are visible uncomfortable when marching. If you aren't swimming or if you don't actually need a tampon instead of a pad then you don't need to wear 1.
Tampons can cause Toxic Shock Syndrome. It can be fatal. Listen to your mom!!! She knows what she's talking about when she tells you no!
Buy them and use them. She is not in the bathroom with you. You are a big girl, do not ask her.
School Band? ~~~10points~~~?
-I'm going into the 9th grade. When I filled out this sheet for my classes, And I chose band. I got a letter during the summer saying I have to go to a band camp(the last 2 weeks of July and 1st week of august. Today was the first day. The music is challenging(which is fine) and I didn't know anyone there. It seemed like everybody was avoiding me. Everybody knew everybody and noone said a word to me.I even had to sit in the band room by myself and eat my lunch. I asked my parents to switch to something like art but they think that somehow im gonna get a scholarship (only every like 1-10 kids will get a scholarship from band) How can I convince them to let me switch?Band is really fun!! I felt the same way last year even though I was in it for 3 previous years. But 9th grade felt completely different. Just ask if you can hang with some of them or something that's what I did. It gets better. I promise. But if you really don't want to be in it talk to your counselors.Tell them that you really aren't liking band and practice and purposely sound really bad. They'll see you won't be getting a scholarship. If you're interested in art, Start making som eof your own and show them. If they see the quality of your work, they might be a little more willing to let you switch.
Please give it more t han one day! Tomorrow, go and speak to at least 5 people, you will make a friend. Do not give up. It is a new new experience, go with it. Hang in there. Do not quit. You will be so happy that you stayed. There are others who feel the same way you do. Look for another person who is along or who does not seem to know anyone. Speak to them. Sty the whole two weeks and then decide. You are giving up way too early!
They're trying to teach you not to be a quitter when things are tough. Give it more than a day. My guess is you might find you really like music, and you will make at least one friend before the week is out.
Give it time. Don't be a quitter. Make your parents happy.
Please give it more t han one day! Tomorrow, go and speak to at least 5 people, you will make a friend. Do not give up. It is a new new experience, go with it. Hang in there. Do not quit. You will be so happy that you stayed. There are others who feel the same way you do. Look for another person who is along or who does not seem to know anyone. Speak to them. Sty the whole two weeks and then decide. You are giving up way too early!
They're trying to teach you not to be a quitter when things are tough. Give it more than a day. My guess is you might find you really like music, and you will make at least one friend before the week is out.
Give it time. Don't be a quitter. Make your parents happy.
My older brother gives me drugs?
-Okay, well my older brother is 21 and I am 17. He has been laid off for about 6 months now and has been home most of the time except when he stays with his girlfriend or goes drinking. Anyway, I have been very depressed lately about alot of things and my ex girlfriend really embarased and cheated on me with my friend, she bragged about it and made fun of me on facebook, so i have been telling my brother and he knows how depressed ive been, so one night he came back from the gym and saw i was in my room and depressed and when i came out to get something to eat, he slipped me 2 pills and said it was "zanex" and i asked him what that was, and he said "i cut them in half, only take halves, but theyll make u feel better"
what should i do?Hey man don't even try em there really addictive and can **** up your life. My friends older brother tried them at like 16 then got addicted then moved on to Oxycontin then started using heroine. Now hes 30 years old unemployed and shares an apartment with like 6 of his friends. If you really need to do something try weed but even that can become addictive. I know hes your brother but just remember misery loves company...
search the drug and see what it is for and ask a doctor and still don't take them if it is not prescribed by a doctor and git rid of them
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Dnt take them pills aint the answer ..work out or get into sports do something to keep urself busy but drugs aint the answer they lead u no where
Refuse to take anything your brother gives you and never ask for his help again!
Well unless you wann go to jail delete this! And honestly no matter how depressed u are the drugs will last a day? And when they wear off u will still be depressed best to face the prob head on.
Zanex/xanax are anxiety disorder pills. Don't take them is my best advice.
tell your mommy and shell put ur brother on time out...and stop being a tattletale...
jk dummy dont ask Y!A go ask someone real
Zanex is a pain relever u should not take then but if you do i cant stop you.
Okay thats a powerful drug and I wouldn't be taking that just like that...the stuff is really addictive
Flush them.
Just hope they aren't Ruflins
work out your ****
Don't take them. It'll make you feel better in the meantime, but in the long-run, you'll feel much worse.
Forget about your obviously pathetic ex-girlfriend. She isn't worth your time or sadness. Forget about your so-called friends too. He obviously isn't worth your friendship if he'd do something as low as that.
I've suffered from depression, and I know it's an awful feeling, but just hold on. Hold on, and get up. Go out and do things. Do something that makes you feel happy; anything that makes you feel happy, but not drugs. Trust me.
Contact me on my Facebook if you want to just talk. I'm a nice person, I promise. I wouldn't mind just talking with you if you felt like venting.
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Don't take them and tell him he's crazy and you don't need that kind of stuff in your life! It will only make your life worse, and your Ex is stupid so ignore her and look for someone else, make her jealous and get with sum1 else and make it something real so then she will know what she lost and can't have back! Tell your brother your not into tat stuff and he shouldn't be doing that stuff either for his own good, the worst thing you could do is not tell your brother anything and let him die little by little cuz tat will just get addicted and that just ends bad so do the right thing and stop being depressed cuz now you know she wasn't the one and the right one is still out there waiting for you :) good luck
what should i do?Hey man don't even try em there really addictive and can **** up your life. My friends older brother tried them at like 16 then got addicted then moved on to Oxycontin then started using heroine. Now hes 30 years old unemployed and shares an apartment with like 6 of his friends. If you really need to do something try weed but even that can become addictive. I know hes your brother but just remember misery loves company...
search the drug and see what it is for and ask a doctor and still don't take them if it is not prescribed by a doctor and git rid of them
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Dnt take them pills aint the answer ..work out or get into sports do something to keep urself busy but drugs aint the answer they lead u no where
Refuse to take anything your brother gives you and never ask for his help again!
Well unless you wann go to jail delete this! And honestly no matter how depressed u are the drugs will last a day? And when they wear off u will still be depressed best to face the prob head on.
Zanex/xanax are anxiety disorder pills. Don't take them is my best advice.
tell your mommy and shell put ur brother on time out...and stop being a tattletale...
jk dummy dont ask Y!A go ask someone real
Zanex is a pain relever u should not take then but if you do i cant stop you.
Okay thats a powerful drug and I wouldn't be taking that just like that...the stuff is really addictive
Flush them.
Just hope they aren't Ruflins
work out your ****
Don't take them. It'll make you feel better in the meantime, but in the long-run, you'll feel much worse.
Forget about your obviously pathetic ex-girlfriend. She isn't worth your time or sadness. Forget about your so-called friends too. He obviously isn't worth your friendship if he'd do something as low as that.
I've suffered from depression, and I know it's an awful feeling, but just hold on. Hold on, and get up. Go out and do things. Do something that makes you feel happy; anything that makes you feel happy, but not drugs. Trust me.
Contact me on my Facebook if you want to just talk. I'm a nice person, I promise. I wouldn't mind just talking with you if you felt like venting.
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Don't take them and tell him he's crazy and you don't need that kind of stuff in your life! It will only make your life worse, and your Ex is stupid so ignore her and look for someone else, make her jealous and get with sum1 else and make it something real so then she will know what she lost and can't have back! Tell your brother your not into tat stuff and he shouldn't be doing that stuff either for his own good, the worst thing you could do is not tell your brother anything and let him die little by little cuz tat will just get addicted and that just ends bad so do the right thing and stop being depressed cuz now you know she wasn't the one and the right one is still out there waiting for you :) good luck
My mum wont let me have a boyfriend?
-Okay, first thing is that she's christion, she doesnt believe in dateing! :/ I dont think theres anything wrong with it. I believe in God but I dont think of myself as a "christion."
So, my best friend asked me out. He's 15, and im 13? Is that wrong? How do I keep it a secret from my mum and brother and anyone else that might tell her? I know alot of you are gunna say, "no, dnt go behind her back!" or "your too young to have a boyfriend." but please just dont, your wasteing your time.
Thankyou (sorry about my grammar, im in a hurry) :)Mum? You sound british hehe (:
Anyways... xD I know what you mean. I go behind my parents back to see my boyfriend cause he doesn't go to my school (we're both 13 though) so i only see him when we hangout and she thinks i see him once a month. We've been together for 9 1/2 months (: but anyways, age and gender are just 2 added factors. They don't really mean anything. As long as he doesn't pressure you into anything and he treats you right, I'd go for it. Also, you have to think if you really love him or if you're only saying yes because he asked you out. Most girls do the second one and it ruins the friendship. This is just another chapter of your life and I believe that you're the author of you story, not your mom. And if she doesn't believe in dating then how did she have you and your brother? xD Hun, Fate will get you into some crazy stufff. All I can say is goodluck and hope I helped (:Here's my motto, age is just a number.
But in my opinion, it depends where the
date would take place. I can understand
like, a crowded movie, or a park, etc.
But if it's like alone at his house, I would
say no.
Also, it depends how much you like one
another. If you like him a lot, if this was
my situation, I would probably go behind
my mother's back.
Best of luck, sweetie!
Your not to young for a boyfriend... And dating is a normal thing in life.
Mums that are against dating results in you never getting to see your boyfriend which makes the relationship kinda crappy when ye can't see each other.
You can always try the male best friend loop hole ? Cause a boyfriend is basically your beat friend with a bit of kissing when your a teenager.
I went through the same thing you did. My mother is a Christian as well and my father is too. They said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. I am 16 now and I have been dating a wonderful guy since I was 13. It helped out that my younger brother (2 years younger) wasn't in school with me. Only tell your closest friends. If you have a phone, maybe put his name under a fake girls name so just in case if your mom see's it, she won't freak. Umm, since he's your best friend, I hope things go well. Good luck. (:
It's ok to have a boy friend just keep it innocent as in don't do anything sexual.
Not dating is unrealistic. I think a lot of parents forgot that they were children once and I really don't think she started dating in her 20's. You say the guy you like is was your best friend? I think if you tell him he will understand the situation. You guys can just hang out like you always do but give each other a kiss once in a while :)
Yes that's too young you guys both are too young just wait
Do it. Have a little fun! Experiment! It's not like your going to run off and have sex.
this is the main cause of teenage pregnancy
So, my best friend asked me out. He's 15, and im 13? Is that wrong? How do I keep it a secret from my mum and brother and anyone else that might tell her? I know alot of you are gunna say, "no, dnt go behind her back!" or "your too young to have a boyfriend." but please just dont, your wasteing your time.
Thankyou (sorry about my grammar, im in a hurry) :)Mum? You sound british hehe (:
Anyways... xD I know what you mean. I go behind my parents back to see my boyfriend cause he doesn't go to my school (we're both 13 though) so i only see him when we hangout and she thinks i see him once a month. We've been together for 9 1/2 months (: but anyways, age and gender are just 2 added factors. They don't really mean anything. As long as he doesn't pressure you into anything and he treats you right, I'd go for it. Also, you have to think if you really love him or if you're only saying yes because he asked you out. Most girls do the second one and it ruins the friendship. This is just another chapter of your life and I believe that you're the author of you story, not your mom. And if she doesn't believe in dating then how did she have you and your brother? xD Hun, Fate will get you into some crazy stufff. All I can say is goodluck and hope I helped (:Here's my motto, age is just a number.
But in my opinion, it depends where the
date would take place. I can understand
like, a crowded movie, or a park, etc.
But if it's like alone at his house, I would
say no.
Also, it depends how much you like one
another. If you like him a lot, if this was
my situation, I would probably go behind
my mother's back.
Best of luck, sweetie!
Your not to young for a boyfriend... And dating is a normal thing in life.
Mums that are against dating results in you never getting to see your boyfriend which makes the relationship kinda crappy when ye can't see each other.
You can always try the male best friend loop hole ? Cause a boyfriend is basically your beat friend with a bit of kissing when your a teenager.
I went through the same thing you did. My mother is a Christian as well and my father is too. They said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. I am 16 now and I have been dating a wonderful guy since I was 13. It helped out that my younger brother (2 years younger) wasn't in school with me. Only tell your closest friends. If you have a phone, maybe put his name under a fake girls name so just in case if your mom see's it, she won't freak. Umm, since he's your best friend, I hope things go well. Good luck. (:
It's ok to have a boy friend just keep it innocent as in don't do anything sexual.
Not dating is unrealistic. I think a lot of parents forgot that they were children once and I really don't think she started dating in her 20's. You say the guy you like is was your best friend? I think if you tell him he will understand the situation. You guys can just hang out like you always do but give each other a kiss once in a while :)
Yes that's too young you guys both are too young just wait
Do it. Have a little fun! Experiment! It's not like your going to run off and have sex.
this is the main cause of teenage pregnancy
Need a good comeback!?!??????
-so my sis ALWAYS says screw ur @$$ to me and i cant say anything back cuz in my family we always have to respect our elders. but i am soo sick of her saying that. so i thought u guys might be able to help!! now i cant say screw you back (ill look stupid) but i need to say something but it cant be tooo disrespectful -_- so i cant call her b**** or anything lyk that just need to shut her up
oh yea and for those goody goody ppl who r gnna say "oh fightin back wont help and peace is better" i dnt want ur advice cuz it doesnt workDude, if that was me, the best i would be able to come up with would be like, "Grow up, your so immature" or something. Everything else i thought of isnt so respectul. Haha. but yeah, good luck."no your boy friend already does that for me"
oh yea and for those goody goody ppl who r gnna say "oh fightin back wont help and peace is better" i dnt want ur advice cuz it doesnt workDude, if that was me, the best i would be able to come up with would be like, "Grow up, your so immature" or something. Everything else i thought of isnt so respectul. Haha. but yeah, good luck."no your boy friend already does that for me"
Am I wrong and did i deserve?
-Its a very long story, but I'm currentely now and in the past having family issues. I'm not going to go into the details because it is to long to write in one post.
okay well to keep it short, my mother and father split up at around the age of 13 and at the time i was living at my mothers, during the time i was living with my mother, i was getting verbal,racial, emotional and physical abuse from my mother and brothers.
from the age of 13 to 17 i have been going back and forth living at my mother to my fathers but I have been having conflicts with my father also, I'm not going to go into details or the past because it is to long to put into a single posting, but there was one particular incident that occured a few weeks ago. At one time early in the morning a few weeks ago, my father threw an object(bass guitar) directly at me when i was in bed(I was really tired during that time and was half asleep) which had resulted in me having my leg(knee) cut and split wide open and as a result of this, i couldn't walk or move for 4 days because it must have cut into the bone and wouldn't stop bleeding, I was in so much pain that i couldn't move or arch it for a few hours, i just had to remain sitting down.
The cause of this was simply because he tried getting and waking me up by and my response was something like "**** off", OKAY yes, i know that wasn't neccesary and there was no need for that response, but what hurts me the most is that a few days after he said he was "Glad" and "Proud" that he has done that to me... and another thing that pisses me off is that it has left a huge scare on my leg which is probably going to be there for life, so even if i'm not around him, everytime i look at it, it is going to remind me of that event or remind me of him....
There is a lot of history and stuff that is happening even now buts its just this particular incident that i can't keep my mind off :(That all sound really bad, and I really don't think you should be in your father's care or your mother's care. :/
That is JUST not okay.
okay well to keep it short, my mother and father split up at around the age of 13 and at the time i was living at my mothers, during the time i was living with my mother, i was getting verbal,racial, emotional and physical abuse from my mother and brothers.
from the age of 13 to 17 i have been going back and forth living at my mother to my fathers but I have been having conflicts with my father also, I'm not going to go into details or the past because it is to long to put into a single posting, but there was one particular incident that occured a few weeks ago. At one time early in the morning a few weeks ago, my father threw an object(bass guitar) directly at me when i was in bed(I was really tired during that time and was half asleep) which had resulted in me having my leg(knee) cut and split wide open and as a result of this, i couldn't walk or move for 4 days because it must have cut into the bone and wouldn't stop bleeding, I was in so much pain that i couldn't move or arch it for a few hours, i just had to remain sitting down.
The cause of this was simply because he tried getting and waking me up by and my response was something like "**** off", OKAY yes, i know that wasn't neccesary and there was no need for that response, but what hurts me the most is that a few days after he said he was "Glad" and "Proud" that he has done that to me... and another thing that pisses me off is that it has left a huge scare on my leg which is probably going to be there for life, so even if i'm not around him, everytime i look at it, it is going to remind me of that event or remind me of him....
There is a lot of history and stuff that is happening even now buts its just this particular incident that i can't keep my mind off :(That all sound really bad, and I really don't think you should be in your father's care or your mother's care. :/
That is JUST not okay.
My baby's dad wants to sleep with my friend?
-I am not with the father of my child but from last year he has openly said how he likes my friend and wants to sleep with her. This is the last straw for me it is obvious he does not care about my feelings i give him her number and he phoned her saying how he cant help how he feels begging her to see him and saying she should stop being my friend would that work? He also told me that it could of easily been her who was his bbys mother and how im the reason he hasnt been able to sleep with her. She told him it wouldnt happen and shes not interested. Now i dnt know what to do about making him see my child, as you can imagine i am quite embarassed and ashamed as it is, do you think its still wise to talk to him about when he wants to see his child or is it best i dont. Surprisingly i thought i would be crying but i havent ive been strong, im jus scared that he will have lowered my self esteem and caused insecurity, ive stopped caring about him a long time ago but now when i talked to him i was emotionless, im confused i dnt know what to dSee, if he cared about the baby he'd be with u right now. Don't talk to him about anything. Show him that you don't care!
And it's good that u didn't cry. Stay strong :)
Don't hold the burden for his immaturity and his mistakes.
First of all, it doesn't matter if he's with you or not, he had the child with YOU. If he's saying something like "The baby could've easily been yours (to the friend)" then he's not a man. A man takes responsibility for everything he does. Only a boy makes excuses. Tell him to get lost and stay away from you. However, once again, he IS the father. He DOES have the right to spend time with your baby if he really wants. Therefore, tell him what the boundaries are and tell him what's what. I have no idea what this guy is like, but it sounds like he's very irresponsible. Talk to him about his plans. Because from my point of view, the baby's better off in your custody.
And it's good that u didn't cry. Stay strong :)
Don't hold the burden for his immaturity and his mistakes.
First of all, it doesn't matter if he's with you or not, he had the child with YOU. If he's saying something like "The baby could've easily been yours (to the friend)" then he's not a man. A man takes responsibility for everything he does. Only a boy makes excuses. Tell him to get lost and stay away from you. However, once again, he IS the father. He DOES have the right to spend time with your baby if he really wants. Therefore, tell him what the boundaries are and tell him what's what. I have no idea what this guy is like, but it sounds like he's very irresponsible. Talk to him about his plans. Because from my point of view, the baby's better off in your custody.
Is it bad to hate a family member?
-Ok I cannot stand my brother. He has been a little ***hole ever since I can remember. He always makes trouble for people and it's like he's mentally retarded or something. I swear it's like he's damien from the omen or something. And he never really does it to other people just me and my sister. He also has a self hate issues and makes fun of black people, when he is black too! Sometimes I wish he never existed and I never reall mention I have a brother to people. I try to avoid him as much as I can, and will probably cut him off once I go to college in the fall. He's only my half brother anyway, but I feel guilty that I dislike my own brother, but he will never change and will always be a jerkoff. It's not my fault b/c I try to make it right and he is always being downright mean, rude, and just disgusting and vile. I don't understand a human can be that mean, and sometimes I can't believe i'm related to him. Is it bad that I don't like my brother?
(Sorry it's so long, I just had to spill my guts out and it felt good.)Boy, do I know where you're coming from! You know what they always say...."You can pick your friends but not your relatives". My sister is like your brother. She is older than I am, deems herself right about everything, sticks her nose in where it doesn't belong, minds your business more than her own and is just plain disagreeable all the darn time. She loves to make trouble and then sits back and acts like she has no idea what's going on. GRRRRRR! I guess there's one in every family. Best to ignore and stay out of your brother's way as much as you can, if at all possible. perhaps what he needs is a good...oh, how should I say this nicely? A** whoopin'! Might just put the fear of God into the little jerk. If you figure it out, let me know....I'll use any ideas on my sister! LOL!It's okay to dislike a family member, but I think that hating a family member is heavy. So, I suggest that you love your little brother while you dislike him.
its not horrible but life is too short to hold resentment u might regret later, if u still question whether or not to do it, its prolly best not to cut your bro out of ur life:)
(Sorry it's so long, I just had to spill my guts out and it felt good.)Boy, do I know where you're coming from! You know what they always say...."You can pick your friends but not your relatives". My sister is like your brother. She is older than I am, deems herself right about everything, sticks her nose in where it doesn't belong, minds your business more than her own and is just plain disagreeable all the darn time. She loves to make trouble and then sits back and acts like she has no idea what's going on. GRRRRRR! I guess there's one in every family. Best to ignore and stay out of your brother's way as much as you can, if at all possible. perhaps what he needs is a good...oh, how should I say this nicely? A** whoopin'! Might just put the fear of God into the little jerk. If you figure it out, let me know....I'll use any ideas on my sister! LOL!It's okay to dislike a family member, but I think that hating a family member is heavy. So, I suggest that you love your little brother while you dislike him.
its not horrible but life is too short to hold resentment u might regret later, if u still question whether or not to do it, its prolly best not to cut your bro out of ur life:)
I tried to connect with my biological father, he said his wife didnt think it was such a good idea :(?
-Now they have recently divorsed, should i try to re-connect. Also, I found out I gave a 5 year old sister named what I had planned on naming my daughter!!She's out of the picture now and he's your dad, it's never a bad idea for a dad and his kid to be connected...
try out ,may it work to reconect them
Name your kid whatever you want to name her! They arent in your life anyways
try out ,may it work to reconect them
Name your kid whatever you want to name her! They arent in your life anyways
Problems with mOm and dad?
-Okay, Well I don't actually live with my real mom and dad, I live with my grandma and my step-grandpa. It's my real dads mom and step-dad, btw, and he died 7 years ago and my mom left me, and my sister. Anyways, My grandparents don't let me do ANYTHING! I HAVE to go to bed at 10, I can't hang out with friends, I can't go anywhere unless they go too, I can't sleep past 9 without getting yelled at, etc etc. They're always yelling at me to do stuff for my older sister, And if I don't do whatever my older sister does then I get yelled at, And my parents let my sister hit me, punch me, pinch me, bite me, etc. And she NEVER gets in trouble. They let her do whatever she wants. They give her all the money she wants, etc. What should I do? And don't say talk to them about it, Because I've tried and whenever I talk to them they yell at me even more. Also, They never tell me I'm pretty, or good job, and they never tell me to follow my dreams.. :/ Please help.Man, sounds so unfair i feel bad for you. :/ i dont know if there is much you can do at this point...You might just have to deal with it til your 17. Im sorry :/your parents always better 4 u
u dont understand this at this stage
but in future u may realize that no one can take place of your parents.............
be pateint and OPEN YOUR HEART B4 UR PARENTS
dont open your heart on yahoo about your parents.
u can use yahoo like platform to solve your another many problems .
be safe and be happy.
I would say that if they are not listening to you5 when you talk...sometimes it is better to just do what you need to be doing and maybe one day they might listen
u dont understand this at this stage
but in future u may realize that no one can take place of your parents.............
be pateint and OPEN YOUR HEART B4 UR PARENTS
dont open your heart on yahoo about your parents.
u can use yahoo like platform to solve your another many problems .
be safe and be happy.
I would say that if they are not listening to you5 when you talk...sometimes it is better to just do what you need to be doing and maybe one day they might listen
How do I get my mother to stop feeding me Aloe Vera gel? ?
-I live with my mother and she isnt all there mentally. All she does is watch tv all day. Anyway I think she mist have seen an advert for Aloe Vera gel and misinterpreted it cause now she keeps putting it on my toast and in all my meals.Either you're a troll, or we have the same mother...You should claim conservatorship over her then and you can make it stop.
stop keepin a supply aloe vera
Well, be wary of what you get fed. Be VERY wary. Also, try to find an excuse to stay at a friend's house.
PISSED offffffffffff
i dont mean this in a mean way but you need to get someone outside your mom and you to help
stop keepin a supply aloe vera
Well, be wary of what you get fed. Be VERY wary. Also, try to find an excuse to stay at a friend's house.
PISSED offffffffffff
i dont mean this in a mean way but you need to get someone outside your mom and you to help
10 POINTS Boyfriend brother problem?
-So when I was 17 I snuck my boyfriend in and he took my virginity... 2 days later my brother (3 years older then me) came in my room and talked to me about how he heard it all when he was in his room cuz his room is next 2 mine. He told me how he's disappointed and sad cuz hes my big brother and im his baby sister and he loves me. and I needed to wait.
BUT still todayyy, my brother hates my bf with Allllll he has and we all have to stay in a room together with someother friends and my brother gets mad everytime hes near him. And My 7 foot 3 brother mad isn't a good thing. He just seems really depressed and quiet when ever I talk about him. He took me to lunch 1 time and it was goin fine and when I started talking about my bf... There goes the mad face and he put his head down and told me not to talk about him
I said ok... But in mi head I'm like " DDDAAAYYYMMM NIGGGAAAA U STILLLL MAAD??????
So what should I do? And how would u feel about mi bf now?well there I have a tip 4 u ,brothers and fathers always care 4 their sister /daughter as she is always the young gurl but that only means that they love you and care 4 u and your brother is your family so he must love you and care 4 u , and perhaps he knows somthing that your boyfrnd has done and dosenot want to tell you knowing you love your boyfrnd as your bro dznt wanna hurt you but the bottom line is that you really gotta think about why dznt your bro like your boyfrnd and you'll find the answer was right there all along
ps: hope I can help :DI think it is important to realize that your relationship with your brother is probably more important than with your boyfriend. Most relationships with your firsts never work anyways and its better to mend things with your brother in the long run
He loves you and just doesn't want you to turn into a big ole ho! Cuz face it once you try it you can't really turn it down.
"Dang *****!" Haha[x Well anyways, It seems you to really need to talk about it. Even if he does get pissy
lol, wha you said was funny. but i think you should respect your brother and talk to him.
7ft 3 O.o
BUT still todayyy, my brother hates my bf with Allllll he has and we all have to stay in a room together with someother friends and my brother gets mad everytime hes near him. And My 7 foot 3 brother mad isn't a good thing. He just seems really depressed and quiet when ever I talk about him. He took me to lunch 1 time and it was goin fine and when I started talking about my bf... There goes the mad face and he put his head down and told me not to talk about him
I said ok... But in mi head I'm like " DDDAAAYYYMMM NIGGGAAAA U STILLLL MAAD??????
So what should I do? And how would u feel about mi bf now?well there I have a tip 4 u ,brothers and fathers always care 4 their sister /daughter as she is always the young gurl but that only means that they love you and care 4 u and your brother is your family so he must love you and care 4 u , and perhaps he knows somthing that your boyfrnd has done and dosenot want to tell you knowing you love your boyfrnd as your bro dznt wanna hurt you but the bottom line is that you really gotta think about why dznt your bro like your boyfrnd and you'll find the answer was right there all along
ps: hope I can help :DI think it is important to realize that your relationship with your brother is probably more important than with your boyfriend. Most relationships with your firsts never work anyways and its better to mend things with your brother in the long run
He loves you and just doesn't want you to turn into a big ole ho! Cuz face it once you try it you can't really turn it down.
"Dang *****!" Haha[x Well anyways, It seems you to really need to talk about it. Even if he does get pissy
lol, wha you said was funny. but i think you should respect your brother and talk to him.
7ft 3 O.o
How do I ask my parents to let me go on my first gay date?
-I came out to my parents a little while back and I think they're a little bit more accepting than they were when I first told them. I want to go on a date with this boy but I don't like going behind their back.
By the way, if you're not for gay rights, don't comment.DK a date is the same in any sexual preference.Introduce your love interest to your parents to let them know you are not be reckless in your choices of partners.Let your parents know what you will be doing,like going to put put golf or the movies or whatever.Ask them for a reasonable curfew for someone your age.If they insist on a chaperone simply agree to it and go on the date and have fun.The more open and trustworthy you are the better the chances of getting what you want.After all they did raise you right?I'm sure they instilled the qualities of the person you became in which they wanted you to be.Have fun and many blessings on you.
Just ask them, ask the one who seem's to accept you being gay more (if that's the best way to put it), they can then talk to the other, at the end of the day, your gay and they will need to get used to you going on dates with other guys.
Openness, at the end of the day, is always the best option, I'm sure you can appreciate that!!
Just tell them you obviously had strong feelings about them wanting to know in the first place and you know they're your parents and will love you no matter what they've already proved that to you so this is the next logical step :) just tell them and if they get mad you'll forget about it while you're enjoying your date! Good luck!
I was hard for me to ask my dad too. I just said
"Hey dad..Can I talk to you real quick? Well I'm 14 now&I think I should be ale to go on a date. You can meet the kid we are just going to see a movie&You know I won't do anything stupid&I have good judgement in guys[:"
i would just be up front with it. since they're accepting it shouldnt be much of a difference for them. imean i dont know how old you are but keep in touch with them. and tell them what you'll be doing.
I would just tell them. Let them know that you are responsible and safe, what you like about him, etc. They'll appreciate your honesty.
Lol ***** you don't ask! You shouldn't even ask us that!
is your own Business do what you want
By the way, if you're not for gay rights, don't comment.DK a date is the same in any sexual preference.Introduce your love interest to your parents to let them know you are not be reckless in your choices of partners.Let your parents know what you will be doing,like going to put put golf or the movies or whatever.Ask them for a reasonable curfew for someone your age.If they insist on a chaperone simply agree to it and go on the date and have fun.The more open and trustworthy you are the better the chances of getting what you want.After all they did raise you right?I'm sure they instilled the qualities of the person you became in which they wanted you to be.Have fun and many blessings on you.
Just ask them, ask the one who seem's to accept you being gay more (if that's the best way to put it), they can then talk to the other, at the end of the day, your gay and they will need to get used to you going on dates with other guys.
Openness, at the end of the day, is always the best option, I'm sure you can appreciate that!!
Just tell them you obviously had strong feelings about them wanting to know in the first place and you know they're your parents and will love you no matter what they've already proved that to you so this is the next logical step :) just tell them and if they get mad you'll forget about it while you're enjoying your date! Good luck!
I was hard for me to ask my dad too. I just said
"Hey dad..Can I talk to you real quick? Well I'm 14 now&I think I should be ale to go on a date. You can meet the kid we are just going to see a movie&You know I won't do anything stupid&I have good judgement in guys[:"
i would just be up front with it. since they're accepting it shouldnt be much of a difference for them. imean i dont know how old you are but keep in touch with them. and tell them what you'll be doing.
I would just tell them. Let them know that you are responsible and safe, what you like about him, etc. They'll appreciate your honesty.
Lol ***** you don't ask! You shouldn't even ask us that!
is your own Business do what you want
What should I get my dad for his birthday?
-I already know that I am getting him jalepeno popper cheese curls, which he loves, and red bull, which he also loves....what else should i get him? Keep in mind i want it to not cost too much, and no clothing cause he wont wear the stuff i buy him cause its not his style.You could get him a card or a tie
I love ties :)
You could get him some hair dye if he has gray hair
You could buy him a pillow. Pillows always get flat fast.
You could clean out his car.
Or just give him some money.
Or maybe a clockGet some dollar scratch tickets. Sometimes they sell them in vending machines. So no one is really monitoring who buys them. If he wins he can cash it in.
get him a dog, he'll love that
I love ties :)
You could get him some hair dye if he has gray hair
You could buy him a pillow. Pillows always get flat fast.
You could clean out his car.
Or just give him some money.
Or maybe a clockGet some dollar scratch tickets. Sometimes they sell them in vending machines. So no one is really monitoring who buys them. If he wins he can cash it in.
get him a dog, he'll love that
My mom's kicking me out of the house so she can party...?
-The party is next week. She's NEVER home, and today one of the only things she said to me is that I'm not aloud in the house that day. I'll have somewhere to go... But I don't exactly trust my mom with the house, especially not with alcohol. She's kicking my grandpa out too (he lives with us and owns half the house). It's for a sibling party... But still. Can she do this? Am I the only one who thinks it's wrong? It defiantly doesn't feel very home like... Is there anything I can do?well i dont think she should, or even can do this. especially if youre under 18 and shes your legal guardian. and she definately cant really make your grandpa out if he OWNS half the house. if your moms an alcoholic or something just dont leave, or go to your gp's part of the house. beforehand try to figure out why both of you have to leave, like the party doesnt have to be in every room of the house. thats kind of rude of her. hope this helps!can she do it? Yes. It isn't against th law or anything. should she be doing it? no. defidenlty not! so, if I where you I would team up with my grandpa, an kick her out of the house! good luck!
i think that if she works a lot and has a lot of responsibilities then she deserves to have it
i think that if she works a lot and has a lot of responsibilities then she deserves to have it
My mom is driving me up the wall! Help?
-So im 13 and i have a sort of different style now. I used to be all girly and fashionista and listened to love songs but now i like avril lavigne and her abbey dawn collection and a pop rock more feel. Its a bit more punk but still has my girly side which i like. I showed my mom her clothing and she hates the clothes and says she doesnt want skulls to be my whole entire wardrobe and that its too expensive. First off, i got under $200 worth of things and normally we spend almost $400-$500 anyway for the new school year. And only 4 or 5 clothing articles had skulls and i still have some of my old clothes. She says i still need to get bra and underwear and jeans but i already have some of those so i only need a couple pairs of jeans and maybe a pack or 2 of undergarments. Either way its still less expensive than usual and shes yelling at me and telling me im wrong and saying im being stupid. I'm trying to have a mature convo with her but she wont listen and insists she is right. Anything me or my sisters say is wrong and this happens constantly. I get yelled at for now reason and im restricted to alot. Im not allowed to hangout with guys, or say damn/crap, or have a facebook, or walk that far from my house, or go to the mall with my friends, and its suffocating me because while all my friends are out having a good time wearing the clothes they want to wear and doing what they wanna do, i cant do any of that. Also; my mother barely works but complains shes tired all the time and refuses to bring me anywhere or do any chores around the house but makes my dad do it. I feel like i want to tear my hair out but i need someone to talk to besides my friends because my friends cant do anything about it. Any advice of what to do? And i know when i go back to school im going to see my guidance counselor and talk to her but as of now in the middle of summer i have nobody to talk to. I try talking to my dad but he has im bring a brat and need to treat my mother with respect... and i do! Help? Please?Your gonna have to tell your mom that Shes gonna have to accept that your growing up... and your gonna wanna make some of your own decisions your not little anymore you cant make all your your decisions but you should be able to make some its not the matter of you respecting your mother its matter of your mother respecting you and what you like... parents don't live forever and people die everyday so don't say anything to your parents that will make you will regret... your parent buy your stuff so the least you can do is help around the house A LITTLE bit... I wont argue with you I hate doing the dishes to but it can't hurt to do it once in a while.I think you are both crazy bit ches...
You asked for an answer and I'll give it. I am not trying to offend you,but you seem selfish. So what if you dont get the clothes you want,some people want clothes in general. You said your mom always says she's right,well it sounds like you do the same. You both are being unreasonable,and you need to talk about it.
Hope I helped good luck
Wait till high school, be simple. Don't bomb freshman year, standing out leads to trouble usually.
I'd just sneak around a lot of that, get a job, and grow out of your home a bit. Half those things she are saying are just... petty and plain controlling. She needs a life. And not yours.
Get a job, buy clothes.
Walk places, meet friends.
Curse harshly, the little stuff get's obliterated.
Use a proxy and get a facebook, hang out with guys anyway- lie!
I know it sounds like **** and probably not 'responsible', but people have to grow :/ You shouldn't be sheltered like that.
btw, google for proxies, to go anywhere on the internet.
You asked for an answer and I'll give it. I am not trying to offend you,but you seem selfish. So what if you dont get the clothes you want,some people want clothes in general. You said your mom always says she's right,well it sounds like you do the same. You both are being unreasonable,and you need to talk about it.
Hope I helped good luck
Wait till high school, be simple. Don't bomb freshman year, standing out leads to trouble usually.
I'd just sneak around a lot of that, get a job, and grow out of your home a bit. Half those things she are saying are just... petty and plain controlling. She needs a life. And not yours.
Get a job, buy clothes.
Walk places, meet friends.
Curse harshly, the little stuff get's obliterated.
Use a proxy and get a facebook, hang out with guys anyway- lie!
I know it sounds like **** and probably not 'responsible', but people have to grow :/ You shouldn't be sheltered like that.
btw, google for proxies, to go anywhere on the internet.
My mom and dad always traf [fart] in public should I be embarressed or happy?
-I am usually happy and proud is that normal.I thought you enjoyed them cause after all i always hear you in ur room trafing it all upWhy on earth would be happy? Also how could not know how you feel? You life your feelings. Why would you have someone on yahoo decide how you should feel, for you? If your happy and proud then that is you, nobody can change that and to be honest I don't care if it's normal because I don't like this question. I would not let the actions of someone else make me feel embarrassed and if you do end up feeling embarrassed then try walking away from them fir a minute Or so.
Well, some bodily functions just seem to take us by surprise sometime, how we handle the situation is another thing. My dad used to blame the dog....we didn't have one! LOL! What ya do is if it happens in a crowded public place (to you), wrinkle your nose, look around and say GEEZ, WHO CUT THE CHEESE? (look as innocent as you can), works every time. Everybody stands around denying it until they all look quilty!
personally, I would definitly be embarrassed. haha but if your happy then all the power to ya blow people off. but if you see it gets embarassing, explain to them that it isnt polite to fart in public.
Whatever we all fart I don't hold them back I just let them rip wherever I am work, in an elevator, the library, church hey it feels good..
Neither. Just accept it. It isn't so true that "Good Families Don't Have Farts". LoL!
I knew that you were proud of my trafs!
Lol :P I would probably just laugh
Well, some bodily functions just seem to take us by surprise sometime, how we handle the situation is another thing. My dad used to blame the dog....we didn't have one! LOL! What ya do is if it happens in a crowded public place (to you), wrinkle your nose, look around and say GEEZ, WHO CUT THE CHEESE? (look as innocent as you can), works every time. Everybody stands around denying it until they all look quilty!
personally, I would definitly be embarrassed. haha but if your happy then all the power to ya blow people off. but if you see it gets embarassing, explain to them that it isnt polite to fart in public.
Whatever we all fart I don't hold them back I just let them rip wherever I am work, in an elevator, the library, church hey it feels good..
Neither. Just accept it. It isn't so true that "Good Families Don't Have Farts". LoL!
I knew that you were proud of my trafs!
Lol :P I would probably just laugh
What should I give my little sister as a present?
-She is 13 and was just promoted from 8th grade to High School. She likes music, animals and hollister clothing. I want to give her something with meaning. A giftcard or cash has no meaning. It's only cash value.
Any young girls out there can give me some advice?First: Go to a big book store and pick her up a beautiful journal and a matching pen. Second: Go to a department store and get her a large, nicely decorated box. There are some very fancy ones out there, some with animals on them. Third: Get her a CD of her favorite music. Wrap up #1 and #3 and put them in the box. The idea here is that the box is to put her High School momentos in, the journal is to write her HS memories in. Then, if she writes in her journal every day all year, you can get her another one as a gift for the following school year. Believe me, when you get much older, these journals are so much fun to look back on and reread. You are very sweet for wanting her promotion into HS to be a special one.
Any young girls out there can give me some advice?First: Go to a big book store and pick her up a beautiful journal and a matching pen. Second: Go to a department store and get her a large, nicely decorated box. There are some very fancy ones out there, some with animals on them. Third: Get her a CD of her favorite music. Wrap up #1 and #3 and put them in the box. The idea here is that the box is to put her High School momentos in, the journal is to write her HS memories in. Then, if she writes in her journal every day all year, you can get her another one as a gift for the following school year. Believe me, when you get much older, these journals are so much fun to look back on and reread. You are very sweet for wanting her promotion into HS to be a special one.
Why are my family and friends always trying to set me up with girls?
-i am 22 and never had a girlfriend because i have not met any girl that i have wanted to go out with and i am not picky at all. i would like a girlfriend in the future but i am not bothered about having one now. i don't even care if the girl is attractive because i only care about the attitude. i have told my friends and family to leave me alone and let it happen when i decide but they just won't stop introducing me to new girls and i am getting really sick of it. i know they are only trying to help but they just won't leave it go even though i have told them countless amount of times where i stand so what can i do to finally get them to stop going on about it. Nobody needs a girlfriend or boyfriend to enjoy life. i am also not the type of person to go looking for love, if it happens in the future then good but if it doesn't then i do not really care because i am happy with my own life.I love your viewpoint, it is lovely, but most people do not share it. This includes your friends and family. They must think you're lying about being happy. Unfortunately, I don't think there is anything you can do to make them stop because they don't understand how you feel. Sorry. :( But you sound like a fantastic person :) Have a wonderful life <3
~Allie
best way to handle it is find a nice girl and become good friends with her and just be friends
and don't take her around your parents.Buy a pair of ladies panties and put them where they
can find them when they ask just say it.s none of there business and but out,
Then you need to convey what you've us to them I'm sure they just want to help you get one eventually maybe you should just roll with it, who knows maybe you'll actually meet someone you really like...
~Allie
best way to handle it is find a nice girl and become good friends with her and just be friends
and don't take her around your parents.Buy a pair of ladies panties and put them where they
can find them when they ask just say it.s none of there business and but out,
Then you need to convey what you've us to them I'm sure they just want to help you get one eventually maybe you should just roll with it, who knows maybe you'll actually meet someone you really like...
Wy am i hurting after a break up?
-I broke up with a co worker because he was undependable and only wanted to see me when it was convenient for him.He wasn't making effort to see me and would often flake out on dates so i decided to dump him.
However,after i broke up with him he started to pay more attention to me whenever he sees me at work.He would give me compliments and tell me that he misses me etc.He started giving me rides to work and buying me breakfast so i figure out he figure out what he did wrong so we started talking on regular basis.I then made plans to go to the beach with him and flaked out on me and just shrug it off like nothing happened.
I decided to just give up on him because i realize that that he will never change his way.I didn't say anything to him about it but i just stopped making effort to talk to him at work and i don't make plans with him anymore.However,he doesn't pay attention to me now and he hasn't made effort to plan anything .His phone is disconnected because of unpaid bills so we don't talk on the phone either.
For some odd reason,his lack of attention has been bothering me and it hurts being around him when he ignores me.I'm considering looking for another job.is it normal to feel this way even though i want to move on?Don't date your coworkers ever because if it doesn't work out, it creates an awkward situation at work. Just ignore him and concentrate on your job..I think this uy is and always was just looking for a friend.Someone he could communicate with in the work situation.He's probably not interested in girls
However,after i broke up with him he started to pay more attention to me whenever he sees me at work.He would give me compliments and tell me that he misses me etc.He started giving me rides to work and buying me breakfast so i figure out he figure out what he did wrong so we started talking on regular basis.I then made plans to go to the beach with him and flaked out on me and just shrug it off like nothing happened.
I decided to just give up on him because i realize that that he will never change his way.I didn't say anything to him about it but i just stopped making effort to talk to him at work and i don't make plans with him anymore.However,he doesn't pay attention to me now and he hasn't made effort to plan anything .His phone is disconnected because of unpaid bills so we don't talk on the phone either.
For some odd reason,his lack of attention has been bothering me and it hurts being around him when he ignores me.I'm considering looking for another job.is it normal to feel this way even though i want to move on?Don't date your coworkers ever because if it doesn't work out, it creates an awkward situation at work. Just ignore him and concentrate on your job..I think this uy is and always was just looking for a friend.Someone he could communicate with in the work situation.He's probably not interested in girls
How can I get my 20 yearold brother out of my gamut house?
-I'm 13 I can't have a job cuz I'm too young but I still contribute at least 15 dollars a month to gel my parents and I don't even n茅ed to pay rent but my brother and missed out on 2 house payments I think it's 90 bucks a month for him and he doesn't want to look for a job. My mother babies him since he is her only son from her first marriage and she only has two daughters from her second marriage. If I tell my mom he needs to get a job because is an adult and atleast contribute she yells at me and threatens to hit me. And I'm gonna be honest Im not there dream child the only him I do is talk back but I don't steal or date or anything else I just have a smart mouth but I have controlled it in the past month and haven't Said anything. But since we moved to a bigger house( before I shared a roommate with my bro) and he hated sharing a room with me and he only thought about moving out but now since we moved he has his own room and is happy that he is alone and can masturbate freely :p but he doesn't wanna gt a job and me and his steppdad (my dad) hate him. How can we get him to want a job I'm sick of hiss lazy buttwait...your parents make you pay for your room at their house..thats not right!
How do I know if my uncle has a crush on me?
-1. If he's gay
2. If he's uber super duper nice to you
3. He comes to your room in the middle of the night and watches you
4: If he steals your undergarments
5. If he drops any sexual hints
6. He tries to rappeee youWhy in the living heck you want to do that?? I rather not give you any ideas...and I don't think it's appropriate to encourage that kind of stuff, you'd never know.. he may think you're coming onto him and rape you, then deny it. And... you get the picture? Hm?
walk around naked, look for his facial expressions
Sit on his lap.
Um, he tries to take your clothes off?
2. If he's uber super duper nice to you
3. He comes to your room in the middle of the night and watches you
4: If he steals your undergarments
5. If he drops any sexual hints
6. He tries to rappeee youWhy in the living heck you want to do that?? I rather not give you any ideas...and I don't think it's appropriate to encourage that kind of stuff, you'd never know.. he may think you're coming onto him and rape you, then deny it. And... you get the picture? Hm?
walk around naked, look for his facial expressions
Sit on his lap.
Um, he tries to take your clothes off?
Am I too young to take the bus home from school/ walk places?
-I'm 15 and I'm not allowed to take the bus home from school or walk anywhere. Like...I can't even walk across the street. I live in a safe neighborhood, and there are always people walking around. Though, a couple of months ago, my friend and I almost got kidnapped while walking home from a book store(long story) and i havent been allowed to go anywhere by myself ever since. My parents even say they'll drive from their jobs (an hour away from where i live) to get me home from school if one of them isnt already there to pick me up. Seriously now? Im not like...5. Yeah, i'm SUPER DUPER scared that I might get kidnapped and I'm always on the verge of calling the cops whenever someone I dont know looks at me, but still...I feel bad that my parents have to drive me all over the place, and they sometimes miss their jobs so they can drive me to/ from school. Sooo I know they care, but the fact that I have to sit at home all summer since I;m not allowed to go out and that they drive me to/ from school when i can at least take the bus home seriously bothers me. Am i too young to take the bus home from school or walk like...down the street to a deli or something?Let them do their thing, they would probably worry themselves to pieces otherwise. Anyway it shows how much they care about you. :)
You were almost kidnapped, I wouldn't want you traveling home or anywhere else alone or with a friend.
Have your friends parents drive you places as long as your parents can drive them places when there not at work
you almost got kidnapped, i dont blame them
You were almost kidnapped, I wouldn't want you traveling home or anywhere else alone or with a friend.
Have your friends parents drive you places as long as your parents can drive them places when there not at work
you almost got kidnapped, i dont blame them
May I get some practical advice?
-Im thankful for some advices.
I need practical advice on acute problem Im facing, which I really can't share with any known person also.
Kindly see 'I am just helpless to see my wife in illicit sex' and favour with practical advice.The issue cannot b discussed in the forum openly. Better send ur e mail ID
Hi Bro
I have msged you in gmail for chat. Msg me when ever you wish
I need practical advice on acute problem Im facing, which I really can't share with any known person also.
Kindly see 'I am just helpless to see my wife in illicit sex' and favour with practical advice.The issue cannot b discussed in the forum openly. Better send ur e mail ID
Hi Bro
I have msged you in gmail for chat. Msg me when ever you wish
Why didnt I have a reaction too this family secret? Please read.?
-I am a 14 year old teenager. I found this secret out when I was 12. And I've been wondering why I havent had a reaction for 2 years. Here's the story, I'm going to try and make it short.
Background: Raised by a single mother, had contact to my alleged 'Father' saw him on Holidays, sometimes every other weekend. Family outings Etc. I have 2 older brothers 31 and 33. Mother and alleged father got back together when I was 9-10, Me and my mom moved into his house.
I had always thought I looked different than my brothers and my parents. In the summer I became very tan and dark haired, while my brothers would be PALE white. But I never thought anything else of it.
One day my parents were out, and I was home alone. I was searching for something, and I found my baby book hidden in the back of my moms closet. So of course I opend it, looked through it. And I came to a page that had my fathers name and information on it.....Except it wasn't my fathers name. It was someone Else's. It said he was Puerto Rican, Which explained why I was so much more tan then my brothers. And why i looked nothing like my family.
When I found out. I honestly didn't care too much. I just thought It was really cool that I was Puerto Rican. My mom recently found out that I knew the secret, because I had written that I wanted to meet him in a diary/notebook thing, that I had left out on my bed. She told me she didn't tell me because she thought I couldn't handle it. I meen my brothers knew, my moms friends knew, everyone knew, except me. She even told me the whole story that he ran out on my mom when she told him he was pregnant, and to make my life easier my 'parents' got back together and claimed that my 'father' was my dad. Wouldnt a regular person have a bigger and life changing reaction to this news...?
I belive I didnt and dont really care about the news is because, me and my 'Father' dont have a relationship, we barely talk and when we do we yell each otherher. Our relationship wont ever be good. (No need to go into details about that whole story) But is it bad that I want to meet him, and that I wonder what he looks like, where he lives, is he married, does his wife know, do they have kids, do they know? Does his parents know? Do they wonder about me?
Why didnt I have a reaction to this, I meen I didnt cry or anything. I honestly just thought it was cool that I was Puerto Rican and had a different dad. How would you have reacted?
Background: Raised by a single mother, had contact to my alleged 'Father' saw him on Holidays, sometimes every other weekend. Family outings Etc. I have 2 older brothers 31 and 33. Mother and alleged father got back together when I was 9-10, Me and my mom moved into his house.
I had always thought I looked different than my brothers and my parents. In the summer I became very tan and dark haired, while my brothers would be PALE white. But I never thought anything else of it.
One day my parents were out, and I was home alone. I was searching for something, and I found my baby book hidden in the back of my moms closet. So of course I opend it, looked through it. And I came to a page that had my fathers name and information on it.....Except it wasn't my fathers name. It was someone Else's. It said he was Puerto Rican, Which explained why I was so much more tan then my brothers. And why i looked nothing like my family.
When I found out. I honestly didn't care too much. I just thought It was really cool that I was Puerto Rican. My mom recently found out that I knew the secret, because I had written that I wanted to meet him in a diary/notebook thing, that I had left out on my bed. She told me she didn't tell me because she thought I couldn't handle it. I meen my brothers knew, my moms friends knew, everyone knew, except me. She even told me the whole story that he ran out on my mom when she told him he was pregnant, and to make my life easier my 'parents' got back together and claimed that my 'father' was my dad. Wouldnt a regular person have a bigger and life changing reaction to this news...?
I belive I didnt and dont really care about the news is because, me and my 'Father' dont have a relationship, we barely talk and when we do we yell each otherher. Our relationship wont ever be good. (No need to go into details about that whole story) But is it bad that I want to meet him, and that I wonder what he looks like, where he lives, is he married, does his wife know, do they have kids, do they know? Does his parents know? Do they wonder about me?
Why didnt I have a reaction to this, I meen I didnt cry or anything. I honestly just thought it was cool that I was Puerto Rican and had a different dad. How would you have reacted?
2011年8月3日星期三
My dad takes me to work everyday with out pay?
-My dad owns a business in which he can take me to work with him because it makes it faster. But he has begun taking me EVERYDAY and had even stopped paying me, I don't receive much, I'm just happy to help out the family but absolutely no pay? And everytime I bring it up he finds a way to put it on me like I'm not earning it, or just gets mad at me, but I go to work with him on his full schedule for 6-7 hours 5 days a week. I'm only 15. I have friends that are wanting me to hang out with them but I'm on such a tight schedule I can't all the time. I've tried telling him I would rather reduce the days I help and the pay, and he agrees. But when that day comes he forces me to go and if I bring up that I wasn't supposed to go that day he flips and starts taking stuff away from me like my iPod, Internet, etc. So I guess Im just wondering if he even can take a underaged 15 yr old to work without even paying me, and what can I do to get him to let me go out less days?Man I'm sorry to hear this bro. Sounds like a tough life! If I were you I would continue to argue with him and tell him how much you want to go out and cruise. I would stand up if you care about hanging out with your friends more than the things he would take away (iPod, internet, etc.). If you rather go out than have those utilities, then just stand up to him. Be a rebel and eventually he'll get used to it.
On the bad side, your dad may not like you and you guys probably won't get along.My dad use to do this to my brothers. I am guessing you are a male.
This doesn't work with females because we find ways to get back at our Dads. Dads usually don't like to spend money. Do what girls do. Become expensive for him.
Just remember one day you are going to pick his nursing home.
Consider going to the police.
How many brother & sister, dad loves you
On the bad side, your dad may not like you and you guys probably won't get along.My dad use to do this to my brothers. I am guessing you are a male.
This doesn't work with females because we find ways to get back at our Dads. Dads usually don't like to spend money. Do what girls do. Become expensive for him.
Just remember one day you are going to pick his nursing home.
Consider going to the police.
How many brother & sister, dad loves you
Does being called uncle make you feel old?
-I am 16 years old and am currently visiting family in Mexico. I met several new faces......many of which called me (There were only 3 little girls so no stereo types, they where from different parents) "Tio" (Spanish for Uncle). I feel so old now....You shouldn't feel like that. There are Uncles both older and young. I'm a great Uncle, which I'm an uncle to my nephew's children. And I still don't feel old, so don't sweat it! By the way, when you get to the age and you have someone call you Grandpa - then maybe that might make you feel old. (But proud)!My nieces who are not even 4 years younger than me used to call me uncle, did it make me feel old?well... not really, it depends what age you are. But i suggest, accept your place in the family, after all, you might be a father someday, :) Hope i helped.
Why does it matter what they call you? You still got some, didn't you?
Why does it matter what they call you? You still got some, didn't you?
My girlfriend and i are splitting up and she is trying to stay with her brother who is a felon with my 9 month?
-my girlfriend and i are splitting up and and she has no place to go, she is trying to stay with her brother who is a felon with my 9 month old daughter. I fear for her safety....is this legal?Sure it is.
Why don't you provide something safer for your child and the mother of your child?Yeah its legal. In cases of separation with a child the mother ALWAYS gets more custody unless she is a full-on crack whore. Even then, maybe as well.
Why don't you provide something safer for your child and the mother of your child?Yeah its legal. In cases of separation with a child the mother ALWAYS gets more custody unless she is a full-on crack whore. Even then, maybe as well.
I have a daughter by a british woman. Me and her relationship didn't work out. Can she just take our daughter?
-My daughter was born in America. Me and the woman currently live together and it has been this way for 2 years. Our differences have proven to be stronger than our love. And she threatened to leave the US with my daughter to go back to England. She is not a US citizen and will likely not be able to return to the US (immigration Issues) . I will be so heartbroken to not have my daughter in my life until she is old enough to know the truth. And that is if the mother even lets her know about me when she gets older. I don't want to lose my daughter someone please help! There is no abuse mentally or physically in this relationship before anyone says anything outrageous. Neither me or her has a job right now. I cant afford a lawyer and we are both not working so in a custody battle who will win?Does your "girl friend" have a passport for the child yet? If she does not, then you can take the child and apply for a joint passport, where the child is actually on your passport. This results in you HAVING to be with the child when she leaves the country. However, if your name is not on the child's birth certificate, this may result in your being unable to get a passport for this child.
I'm not a lawyer so I can't give you complete advice but I don't think your situation looks good. Custody battles are almost always won by the mother. Its just assumed that a woman will always take better care of the child than a man. Try researching your situation more online. Wish I could help you more, good luck.
I'm not a lawyer so I can't give you complete advice but I don't think your situation looks good. Custody battles are almost always won by the mother. Its just assumed that a woman will always take better care of the child than a man. Try researching your situation more online. Wish I could help you more, good luck.
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