Wy am i hurting after a break up?

-I broke up with a co worker because he was undependable and only wanted to see me when it was convenient for him.He wasn't making effort to see me and would often flake out on dates so i decided to dump him.



However,after i broke up with him he started to pay more attention to me whenever he sees me at work.He would give me compliments and tell me that he misses me etc.He started giving me rides to work and buying me breakfast so i figure out he figure out what he did wrong so we started talking on regular basis.I then made plans to go to the beach with him and flaked out on me and just shrug it off like nothing happened.



I decided to just give up on him because i realize that that he will never change his way.I didn't say anything to him about it but i just stopped making effort to talk to him at work and i don't make plans with him anymore.However,he doesn't pay attention to me now and he hasn't made effort to plan anything .His phone is disconnected because of unpaid bills so we don't talk on the phone either.





For some odd reason,his lack of attention has been bothering me and it hurts being around him when he ignores me.I'm considering looking for another job.is it normal to feel this way even though i want to move on?Don't date your coworkers ever because if it doesn't work out, it creates an awkward situation at work. Just ignore him and concentrate on your job..I think this uy is and always was just looking for a friend.Someone he could communicate with in the work situation.He's probably not interested in girls