My mum wont let me have a boyfriend?

-Okay, first thing is that she's christion, she doesnt believe in dateing! :/ I dont think theres anything wrong with it. I believe in God but I dont think of myself as a "christion."



So, my best friend asked me out. He's 15, and im 13? Is that wrong? How do I keep it a secret from my mum and brother and anyone else that might tell her? I know alot of you are gunna say, "no, dnt go behind her back!" or "your too young to have a boyfriend." but please just dont, your wasteing your time.



Thankyou (sorry about my grammar, im in a hurry) :)Mum? You sound british hehe (:

Anyways... xD I know what you mean. I go behind my parents back to see my boyfriend cause he doesn't go to my school (we're both 13 though) so i only see him when we hangout and she thinks i see him once a month. We've been together for 9 1/2 months (: but anyways, age and gender are just 2 added factors. They don't really mean anything. As long as he doesn't pressure you into anything and he treats you right, I'd go for it. Also, you have to think if you really love him or if you're only saying yes because he asked you out. Most girls do the second one and it ruins the friendship. This is just another chapter of your life and I believe that you're the author of you story, not your mom. And if she doesn't believe in dating then how did she have you and your brother? xD Hun, Fate will get you into some crazy stufff. All I can say is goodluck and hope I helped (:Here's my motto, age is just a number.



But in my opinion, it depends where the

date would take place. I can understand

like, a crowded movie, or a park, etc.

But if it's like alone at his house, I would

say no.



Also, it depends how much you like one

another. If you like him a lot, if this was

my situation, I would probably go behind

my mother's back.



Best of luck, sweetie!
Your not to young for a boyfriend... And dating is a normal thing in life.



Mums that are against dating results in you never getting to see your boyfriend which makes the relationship kinda crappy when ye can't see each other.



You can always try the male best friend loop hole ? Cause a boyfriend is basically your beat friend with a bit of kissing when your a teenager.
I went through the same thing you did. My mother is a Christian as well and my father is too. They said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. I am 16 now and I have been dating a wonderful guy since I was 13. It helped out that my younger brother (2 years younger) wasn't in school with me. Only tell your closest friends. If you have a phone, maybe put his name under a fake girls name so just in case if your mom see's it, she won't freak. Umm, since he's your best friend, I hope things go well. Good luck. (:
It's ok to have a boy friend just keep it innocent as in don't do anything sexual.

Not dating is unrealistic. I think a lot of parents forgot that they were children once and I really don't think she started dating in her 20's. You say the guy you like is was your best friend? I think if you tell him he will understand the situation. You guys can just hang out like you always do but give each other a kiss once in a while :)
Yes that's too young you guys both are too young just wait
Do it. Have a little fun! Experiment! It's not like your going to run off and have sex.
this is the main cause of teenage pregnancy