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2011年8月4日星期四

I'm never good enough for my parents?

-I feel like I'm never good enough for my parents. Both of them are college educated and my dad is doctor. I don't drink, I don't smoke I have been on high honor roll every year since 6th grade. I have been in accelerated math since 6th grade. I'm taking to AP courses next year along with enriched trig and enriched Spanish. I have been dancing since I was 2 and also do varsity cheer. But my parents are never happy. My average this year was a 96 and my dad told me if I want to do anything with my life I need to actually learn how to try hard enough. They get annoyed if I get a 90 on test and tell me I need to study for once even though I do study. My mom is always yelling at me for the tone I use when I talk to her but that's how I talk to everyone. I'm just sick of it. I try really hard to be good and do what they want me to but it's never enough. They have never said "as ling as you try your best". I brought this to my mom once and told her I'm not perfect and she said she doesn't expect me to be but it certainly seems like they want me to be. They also compare me to my cousin who is really smart. For example my dad once said Chelseas average is a 100 why is yours only a 96? And it hurts. I honestly just want to stop trying. I'm so sick of t. If my best isn't enough what's the point? Is there anything I could possibly say to them to have them realize how hard I really try and what not? I don't know what more i could possibly do to stop. Any advice is appreciatedAs long as you don't get drunk, smoke drugs, steal and get good grades then to be honest your parents should be 119 percent proud of you. If they arnt then that's their problem because you are a good person. No one is perfect, so your parents shouldn't expect you to be. They want the best for you but they seem to be taking it too far. If I was you I would talk to them and make them listen.



YOU are who YOU are. YOU are not perfect. NO ONE is, not even your parents. Everyone makes mistakes.



Hope I have helped,

Good luck!!!!!! :) xxxSry to say this but u got horrible parents. The question isn't that if u are good enough for them.. The question is are they good enough for you. Listen, the Parents raze their children as what they want. And if ur not what they won't then it's not your fault.. Can't rly understand how they made u think about this
The military's best Officer Candidates are just what you are, your parent think this because even though you do well you may not have a goal, figure one out make it your drive, then they'll become more supporting but probably the same on the nagging level...
Your parents are assholes, be what you want to be, don't let them stop you.
I wished I had Your brain
I felt that way to, I tried and tried and tried. And my step dad always said Well you need to do better, What you can do is tell them how hard your trying, and that how good you have been doing. Trust me my sister and me have the exact same thing, My step dad was so proud of my sister but me? Nope Not at all..It suckes, Just remember don't try hard for your parents try hard for you. You are doing very good in school and don't stop cause of your parents this is your future not your parents

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