My mom is driving me up the wall! Help?

-So im 13 and i have a sort of different style now. I used to be all girly and fashionista and listened to love songs but now i like avril lavigne and her abbey dawn collection and a pop rock more feel. Its a bit more punk but still has my girly side which i like. I showed my mom her clothing and she hates the clothes and says she doesnt want skulls to be my whole entire wardrobe and that its too expensive. First off, i got under $200 worth of things and normally we spend almost $400-$500 anyway for the new school year. And only 4 or 5 clothing articles had skulls and i still have some of my old clothes. She says i still need to get bra and underwear and jeans but i already have some of those so i only need a couple pairs of jeans and maybe a pack or 2 of undergarments. Either way its still less expensive than usual and shes yelling at me and telling me im wrong and saying im being stupid. I'm trying to have a mature convo with her but she wont listen and insists she is right. Anything me or my sisters say is wrong and this happens constantly. I get yelled at for now reason and im restricted to alot. Im not allowed to hangout with guys, or say damn/crap, or have a facebook, or walk that far from my house, or go to the mall with my friends, and its suffocating me because while all my friends are out having a good time wearing the clothes they want to wear and doing what they wanna do, i cant do any of that. Also; my mother barely works but complains shes tired all the time and refuses to bring me anywhere or do any chores around the house but makes my dad do it. I feel like i want to tear my hair out but i need someone to talk to besides my friends because my friends cant do anything about it. Any advice of what to do? And i know when i go back to school im going to see my guidance counselor and talk to her but as of now in the middle of summer i have nobody to talk to. I try talking to my dad but he has im bring a brat and need to treat my mother with respect... and i do! Help? Please?Your gonna have to tell your mom that Shes gonna have to accept that your growing up... and your gonna wanna make some of your own decisions your not little anymore you cant make all your your decisions but you should be able to make some its not the matter of you respecting your mother its matter of your mother respecting you and what you like... parents don't live forever and people die everyday so don't say anything to your parents that will make you will regret... your parent buy your stuff so the least you can do is help around the house A LITTLE bit... I wont argue with you I hate doing the dishes to but it can't hurt to do it once in a while.I think you are both crazy bit ches...
You asked for an answer and I'll give it. I am not trying to offend you,but you seem selfish. So what if you dont get the clothes you want,some people want clothes in general. You said your mom always says she's right,well it sounds like you do the same. You both are being unreasonable,and you need to talk about it.



Hope I helped good luck
Wait till high school, be simple. Don't bomb freshman year, standing out leads to trouble usually.



I'd just sneak around a lot of that, get a job, and grow out of your home a bit. Half those things she are saying are just... petty and plain controlling. She needs a life. And not yours.



Get a job, buy clothes.

Walk places, meet friends.

Curse harshly, the little stuff get's obliterated.

Use a proxy and get a facebook, hang out with guys anyway- lie!



I know it sounds like **** and probably not 'responsible', but people have to grow :/ You shouldn't be sheltered like that.



btw, google for proxies, to go anywhere on the internet.