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2011年8月2日星期二

How to convince parents to let me go out?

-hey I'm 15 but my rents don't seam to accept that when ever I want to go out they refuse saying i'm to young and even when they do they have to know everything about it and usually its just lunch and a movie with a friend we live in a safe area and I really need help knowing who please help!maybe your parents dont need to know everytime you go outAt 15, you are still a child, and your parents are responsible for everything you do. They have the right to ask you for details. They should always know where you are, who you are with and what you are doing. This will be true until you are 18.



Instead of arguing with them and trying to convince them, convince them that you are becoming mature by doing whatever they ask when they ask it, getting good grades and never arguing (even if you think you're right). After they gain confidence in your maturity, they will probably give you more slack.
I'm a parent. Here's a tip. There's nothing you can SAY that will let us to get you to go out. We're looking at your behavior and attitude. If you have bad behavior or a bad attitude... or can't seem to recognize that you have either... then don't bother asking.
If your parents are good ones, they are watching for signs of maturity in you.



You might try asking if you can double or group date first. Your parents might see this as a safer scenario for you.



If they say "yes" -- then be absolutely sure you get home on time and in no trouble!
Isn't a prerequisite for dating the ability to to write a complete sentence? Wait, no that's for being a 5th grader.



Start behaving in a mature and humble manner and they may let you go.

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