I need some advide about talking to people?

-I don't really tell people private things about myself. My friends always talk about there boyfriends but i don't. i don't talk to any one in my family. i don't even talk to my auntie. people think they know but they don't. I talk about some things like if they ask me "how was school" (they don't ask me often) i will answer that but other things i don't talk about. When they talk about stuff around me it gets really awkward. i need a way of telling my privacy without any one else hearing it. my family's not very close but i wish we were. My friends are quite close to there mums or dads. What can i do i need help pleaseIf you feel like you really want to talk to your family but get too shy, try a meaningless chat. You will feel less awkward talking about something pointless than something personal. Have a few discussions like this to ease yourself into conversations with them, try and make it a routine thing. Once you feel more comfortable talking to them in general, try and slowly add in personal information. If you really want to talk about a certain subject but can't bring yourself to do it, try a phonecall or a letter. They would be strictly private and you wouldn't need to go through the face to face interaction.By the sounds of it you're close to your aunt. You could start by talking to her. Its ok to be private though. Sometimes people are just better listeners. People like that.