-How do I make a best friend? I want a straight guy as a best friend even though I'm bisexual. I go to community college btw, and I really want someone I can be close with since the new semester will start in a month. I know girls make just as great best friends as guys, but I don't want to fit into a stereotype saying bi and gays only have female friends. Please give me the best tips on how to make a new BFF w/o seeming needy or desperate lol. Thanks!You shouldnt have to per say "make" a best friend. Find someone you have a lot of classes with and get to know them. Sit next to them sometimes , but other times, try to sit next to someone else. you don't want to stalk them haha. give them some space and if they like you, they will try sitting with you. leave the fact that your bi out of it. not that theres anything wrong, but let the guy get to know you for who you are and not judge you. also, don't call him your bff lmao. thats more of a girl / cliquey thing.
and i know you don't want to hang out with all girls, but if you become friends like really good friends with a lot of the girls, you can set some guys up with them and they'll come running thanking you. you can of course let the girls know your bi, cause i feel that girls are less judgemental and they'll accept you.First of all, keep the fact that you're bi out of it. Not that it's anything to hide, but if you go flaunting it with every guy you meet, they'll get the impression that you want something more than a friendship. It's like if a girl tells a guy she's single. The guy automatically gets the hint that she wants him. But other than that, just be open without exaggerating or lying. Be yourself, and be truthful. Relate yourself to a person by bringing up common interests before getting into other personal interests.
I think you have to seem confident in order to attract other humans. If you naturally get on better with female, you shud just accept it cos you cant have a bff who you dont truly love and want to spend time with.
When your semester starts, talk to only guys and let them get to know you. That way, you guys can start hanging out. The more often you guys chat, the better you guys will get along and then you'll have your new BFF :)
Get a dog! They're always loyal and happy to see you. And they'll never judge you :)
you dont make a best friend! u can always make good friends but ull always know if uv met someone who could become ur best friend bcause ye just GET each other, verry little effort involved!! good luck!
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