My dad invades my privacy and treats me like a kid?

-alright this is ridiculous im 16 a guy and my dad keeps on invading my privacy.he reads my facebook emails, he goes into my room all the time and denies it until I show him evidence and whenever i have a friend over guy or girl, he drills us on what we are gonna do when and where. Today i had enough of this and almost flipped out on him when he said your friend maria sent you a very nice postcard. what can i do to get him to stop doing this i told him already how he seems to not trust me and everything but he just went on about how he does trust me and he would never invade my privacy.

he doesnt think i can do anything by myself.

the worst thing is when i took a girl out he asked what movie we were gonna see and i told him and he said you cant see that that is an R rated movie. it was the most embarrassing thing ever, he lets me buy R rated movies and he suggests them half the time.

i am starting to have a worse and worse relationship with him.

the only reason he wouldn't trust me is because one time he read on my email how i tried a cigarette and had a glass of wine. but im growing up everybody tries these things its not like im an addict from one try.

also my parents dont live with eachother anymore so he has as much time as he wants to go into my room.

my mom isnt anything like him she will say have a nice time and ask to call if i need a ride, she hardly ever goes into my room except to wake me up or if something is needed from there.

I asked this question before but i got few respounces so i am asking again.Kick hiss old *** \o/ Don't take **** from nobody, when they push, you push back! Some say, don't hit you r parents, i say hit them harder, they are week and can't do anything about it >:)
Sounds like fairly normal 16 year old problems to me.



I was pretty frustrated with my mom at that age too but, before you know it, adulthood comes and you might even miss your parents!
Get your own place to live and you won't have to deal with it. Until then, stop whining.
Overprotective? Yes. Overbearing? Yes. Is he allowed? Unfortunately yes.



You're 16, parents pretty much can control your life unless they are legimitately abusive. But don't worry, in two years you'll be free to do whatever you want.



You can always try to respectfully say you don't appreciate him probing into everything you do. Maybe he'll back off.