Should I stay out of it or stick up for my brother?

-My sister in law made a status on facebook saying rude things about my brother and how he's not going to be able to see his daughter anymore ( she's going to keep her away from him ). He happened to be at my house earlier and I told him to look, he didn't have a clue what was going on. So I called her and asked, she started to cry so I hung up. I don't care about her, she's an idiot and tries to play the victim in everything but she went to far by saying he won't be able to see his baby.



Should I stay out of it or should I put her in her place?

I feel like I should say something.I agree with Elvira Caban :-)



For now, let them work things out. It's their martial issue and you getting involved won't have a good result.



Support your brother in what he does (and just hate her from the sidelines lol).That's your brothers problem let him deal with it if you get in involved then your the bad guy you never know when they might patch things up remember that's his daughters your nieces mother let them deal with it as grown adults you can give advice to your brother but never get involved because you never know which side your brother might take and also if you get involved you might just make the situation worst on your brother
I think you should stay out of it. You can support your brother without getting involved with her. You can sometimes make things worse by getting into it. It could make it worse for your brother which I assume is the last thing you want. Good luck
Stick up for your brother. Not only is your sister in law taking away his daughter, but she is taking away your niece! Like Every Day I'm Shuffalin' 鈩?said, always stick beside your family's side - your blood.
If it's involving your brother, I definitely think you should stick up for him.



Always stick beside your fam's side. You're blood.
Facebook is the root of all evil. I cant even tall you how many people write questions about hurt feelings and/or betrayal here that stem from something someone posted on facebook. Facebookis a place for people to lie about the quality of their lives and get their feelings hurt. I have a friend a twork whos family is constantly fighting over facebook crap--I am talking about a surgeon, and MBA and an attorney all at least 40 years old.



You should stick up for your brother in a moral support kind of way, but not deal directly with her or say anything to or about her. He and she may make up, and then he will expect you to like her again. It's crazy but I have been there:



My sisters both married douches I did not like before they got married. then I was made to like them and so i found things to like about them, then when my sisters years and years later decide to dump them,I am supposed to instantly hate this guy who is now like a brother to me and whose parents and sisters and brothers I love, etc. I also had the same thing happen with a stepfather.



Divorces are rough on the inlaws too.



Give him moral support but that is all.
Your brother is a big boy so in that regard you should stay out of it.



However, his daughter can't defend herself and she needs all the help she can get. Anything that is directed to either your brother or your sister-in-law should be regarding the baby and be as constructive as possible. For example.. instead of hanging up on her... try "It sounds like you have alot going on. Would you like me to take the baby for a bit while you get yourself put together?... she shouldn't see all this drama". If you want to keep seeing your neice, "polite" is the game. You don't have to like your sister in law - but you should be polite to get what you want.